Well he didn't get over it. everyday he wakes up happy, asks if jacks home, finds out he isnt, cries all day.
It gets to a point where I just sit and stare at him and say "Hayden are you seriously that upset"
So here I am staring at him crying waiting for him to stop so I can put the twins down for a nap without waking up
"Are you really that bothered by it"
"Y-yes I want home"
"He's been gone for three weeks it hasn't been that long"
"Well I sad he miss second birthday"
"He will come home soon I promise"
"I call him?"
"I don't know I'll text him and see"
Me- hey tell me when you're off Hayden wants to call you
Jack- I'll ft in an hour we have rehearsals soon
Me- okay if you're busy you don't have to call he's just going to have to deal with it
Jack- no I miss him a lot too you have no idea
Me- what about me. :)
Jack- of course I miss you
Me- good well I'm going to put the twins down for a nap and try to calm down Hayden have a good rehearsal
Jack- okay bye I love you send videos of Hayden and the twins please and thank you
Me- will do
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We get off the phone with Jack and it made Hayden feel a whole lot better
He stopped crying and is calm now
Jack told him he'd be home in two months and now he's asking me to get him a calendar so he can mark off the days.
Now I have to get him a calendar cause I'll feel like a bad mom if I don't.
But I can't just go out and get one seeing as well I have small children at home and I can't just leave them there so I am going to go online to get one
It's not just going to be ANY calendar it's going to be a homemade one cause I'm just that great of a person
I find a personalization website and personalize a calendar
I have the calendar start in July of this year and end in July of next year so on his birthday I'll get him a new one
On some months I have pictures of just him, him and Jack, him and the twins, and all of us
I finish and it is EXTREMELY CHEAP except I pay for advanced shipping which bumps it up a lot of money
