Protector (HotchxMaleOC) (Book2)

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*Jacob*

We ended up taking enough of a break to eat food and for Aaron to ask any clarifying questions about anything we've talked about so far. He did end up asking a bunch of really good questions. I'm sure it helped him process what we've talked about already today. 

Now we're cuddled back up on the couch soaking up the quiet. 

"Are you sure you want to continue today?" I broke the silence wanting to see if Aaron wanted to add more information to what he's already received. 

"I am. I'd rather get this portion finished so I have enough of an understanding for when we start making lists or I start making my own." 

"Okay, that makes sense. Just let me know if you need another break. I don't like feeling as if I'm overwhelming you/your brain with information." 

"I will." 

"Alright." 

I took a breath before jumping back into our conversation. 

(A/N: italicized sections are Jacob speaking to Aaron)

 On to the Toy aspects of BDSM. I'm just going to give a few examples. Toys can be in scenes or just things to try out. You don't have to use them either, this is just informational. 

*Whips: an umbrella of impact play tools 

   - usually refers to an item with a thinner body that produces more of a "stingy" sensation 

          * ex: Floggers

*Rope

*Paddles

*Zappers: an electro wand that is used as part of electrostimulation

* Finger Vibrators: Rubbery or ridged pads you place over your fingertips, turn them into individual dildos

*Double-ended dildos: double-ended dildos enter two partners at once, often these toys vibrate

*Cock cages: chastity cages, unique devices that serve characters who are aroused by not being able to get carnal satisfaction

     - often metal or plastic, they lock with a padlock or key and prevent you from being able to get an erection. 

*Hands-free vibrators

*Penis/Cock Rings: make a partner with a member last longer through intercourse by cutting off circulation 

     - by preventing blood from flowing back into the penis, this amplifies and prolongs erections 

     - can also have a vibrating one

*Nipple clamps

*Handcuffs

*Ballgag

*Prostate Massagers: a vibrating toy that goes up the anus to stimulate the prostate

*Buttplug

*Fleshlights

*Analbeads

*Teledildonics: remote-controlled sex toys

*Crops

*Sex swings: there are many different kinds all of which help partners pull of gravity-defying sex 

     - ex: door swings, sex slings

*Pulsators: wraps around the penis and jacks it off using oscillation 

*Automatic masturbators

* Blindfold: taking away your sense of sight, the rest of your senses are heightened, normally part of sense deprivation

*Feather teasers: provide a really gentle touch along the body, especially great after-impact play on the now much more sensitive areas

*Aaron*

Having these conversations with Jacob let my mind wander a bit. File away things/terms that pique my interest. It sort of allows me to build a series of lists in my mind. This way I'm ready to have a physical list when needed for this dynamic contact we'll be creating. 

I do enjoy listening to Jacob speak about these things. I mean they're part of his lifestyle. Part of the BDSM lifestyle. He gets excited teaching me about this. I just hope he remembers to breathe during these talks. 

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We've gone through a lot of information today. With it, Jacob and I were able to curate some lists: rules, punishments, and rewards. We'll be able to add to or remove items from these lists as our dynamic grows. We can also create rules/punishments for a specific scene we're doing if we so wish as well. 

Rules: 

1. Communication 

      - talk about what we liked and what we didn't like after a session/scene

2. Respect

 3. Check-ins

      - check in with each other, even if only over text

            * because of potential cases and their consequences

Like what happened with Haley. How I lost her. How I put her and Jack in danger. I don't want anything like that happening again so at least with the check-in rule I can use it to make sure Jacob is somewhere safe if he needs to be. 

4. Take days for mental health

      - can fall under the communication rule

      - let yourself have breaks, don't overwork/push yourself when you need to reevaluate things going on around you

       - if we need to be in each other's presence we'll do what we can even if it's just a video call or a phone call until someone falls asleep 

*Punishments: (toys that are a potential to be used)

    - Spanking (use hands or paddles)

    - Orgasm Denial (potential with the use of a cock cage)

    - Forced Orgasm (pulsator, teledildonics/vibrators, prostate massager)

    - Forced Silence (Ballgag used during sex to keep Jacob quiet if he refuses)

  - Cock and Ball torture

   - Bondage-no touching

*Rewards

    - Spend the day full 

          * Ex: on off days can be cock warming or being full of Aaron's cum held in with a butt plug

    - Praise

   - Jacob can pick a place for them to have sex if he wants to explore his exhibitionist side.