so I'm gonna say it again but my dad is a really judgmental person and it basically makes me fear who I meet and don't meet
bc apparently smoking for him is a sore subject and he doesn't like remembering the days where he used to
so I'm just kinda sacred that if I'm in a (more than friends) relationship with someone who smokes (anything I guess) I or they could get shit for it.
I mean yeah its okay for my dad to be worried or concerned?
But I just fear he'll be a dick about it
okay fuck it.
I'm gonna love who I want and what counts is not what they smoke or not but if they're a good person for/to me.
There's a lot of reasons to smoke other than to be cool or you were dragged in it or whatever
You could do it bc its the only way to relieve stress, or it just has some meaning to you?
good god I just want to fucking bash this in people's head in, stop judging people for what they've gotten themselves into but for how they handle it and if they're a good person to you
