living with someone abusive, you always have to give really vague answers to when someone asks something
I'll try
maybe
I don't know
and that's honestly shit to deal with because you know you're being vague and that sucks, but that's all you can answer because not even you know the answer to the question they're asking you about your situations.
I hope everyone who's abused someone in any way gets fucked with a cactus, no lube.