you see the same person every day
say they always hurt you physically in some way, like beat you up for no reason.
Of fucking course you're gonna be afraid of them the next time you see them.
Then people will go 'maybe that's not their intent, you shouldn't be scared.'
or maybe the person themselves will say that, and continue to do the same things to you.
Like hell that'll change anything.
My parents are the maybe that's not their intent, you shouldn't be scared type of people.
They don't fucking realize that it doesn't matter what or who you are to a person, your words and actions can have an effect on them.