Be A Girl

Rape and inappropriate comments.

Reason #17 I'm writing this: There's no more Mr.Darcy.

Missed me? So I do know Ramadan is not over yet but I finished the Quran and well.. I have time to spare, don't worry. I hope all muslims out there a sawm makboul and......I don't know what else.

So I just want to warn you guys: I've been back for like..2 days? But I'm not allowed to curse until the end of Ramadan and I seriously doubt I'd be able to go through a chapter without cursing so if you find something like "AH***************JKFGKWQE!" That's just me letting out steam in hopes on not cursing.

One more thing before we start. A while back, someone sent me a link to a book in which your allowed to share your own articles. Like a girl support thingy but you write your own feelings. It's called Hear Our Voices and I think it's a very nice idea. So if anyone wants to submit anything, I dedicated this chapter to the writer you can contact her and see how it goes :)

Okay? Okay. Now to the chapter. Today, today is about something that is SERIOUSLY getting on my nerves. No scratch that. Today is about something that got on the approximated 100 billion nerve in my body!

Rape and inappropriate remarks.

Not emotional. Don't worry, I'm planning to update ALOT these days.

Now here's what I want to say: Lets draw a line and get this chapter started.

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Rape and inappropriate remarks:

Lets imagine it together here, people. A guy walking down the street with all his dignity and going to work or class or even the bathroom (who cares!). He's already alittle bit uncomfortable because everyone has been staring at him while he's walking so he can't wait to get to his destination. Then out of no where, a woman who smells like pigs starts whistling at him.

"Goooood morning, gorgeous." she'd say. "How about you give me some of that?"

"Ma'am please leave me alone."

"But baby! We just got started!"

^^^^^^^ See? Can you see how disturbing this is? Huh? Huh? Huh? Not because it's a guy this time but because THE ACT IT'S SELF IS DISTURBING.

And it only gets weirder as you go on! Each country now has it's mix of "inappropriate remarks". Stuff so weird and unheard of and SICK that you feel embarrassed for you and the kids around you in the street who had to here that.

Someone out there! EXPLAIN TO ME! Explain to me what "Ya ard ehfazy ma 3alaky" means! "Earth save what's on you" that's the literal translation. What does that even mean?! Where do they even get the lines from! What kind of drugs do they do because that's some pretty strong poop! And I swear to God one more guy tells me "hez ya hazaz" (you don't want me to translate that) and I will show him how I can 'vibrate' his heart out with my taser!

*breathe in* *breathe out* okay. I'm not here to rant. I'm here to say this: If it looks like he's not satisfied with just words, kick him were in hurts and run for dear life. NO JOKE! I wish I was joking here but I'm not.

^^^ These situations are not the time to scream for help or shout at the man to leave you alone. 1) people don't help. 2) he only finds it cute that your shouting at him! YES! HE'S SICK ENOUGH TO CONSIDER BEING PUBLICLY HUMILIATED CUTE!

So again, I'm saying here: Download SafeTrek. Saying someone is following you and you feel uneasy. Take out your phone, hold the button down and keep holding it until that person leaves. If you lift your finger and dont type the security pin within ten seconds, the police are alerted of your location immediatly. (not avaliable in Egypt, of course)

Carry pepper spray, a taser or a pocket knife. (Yes you heard me, a pocket knife!) we're not joking here. And you better aim to cause some serious damage. The taser works best on the neck (specially from behind) while the pocket knife I suggest you aim for what's between his legs (again, not kidding.)

And keep them somewhere where you can reach them quickly and easily. Because come on! If he's coming at you you wont just magically hit pause, open your bag, bring out your taser, uncap the safety and THEN attack him! IT DOESN'T WORK LIKE THAT!

Attack vital targets. Because lets face it, we're sadly not ironman and we wont be able to cause some serious damage unless we use our brains. And no, Vital targets are not just one. Did you ever try stomping on someone's head? It hurts like hell! Punch him in the throat while pushing his crown down. Watch self defense videos to know how to escape in different situations; you wont escape unless you do something!

Escape is where ever there's people. Of course, when running, you wont be opening google maps and picking a destination, but shops are the first place you should enter if your in a street. Barg into the nearest shop. Or go to where ever there's enough amount of people. Too crowded you wont be noticed and if you aimed for his nuts with a knife earlier I'm betting he's in for revenge. Too empty say byebye to sweet life. So yes, enough people to be noticed.

You think it's funny? It's not. I agree that sounds like we're going into a war BUT WE ARE! If the country can't provide us with a safe enviroment to live in, the answer is not to hide at home or wear shapeless dresses (Over here in Egypt, even women wearing nikab get raped!). The answer is to provide the save enviroment for ourselves. We don't have to be afraid anymore. A guy can't touch you inappropriatly and run away anymore. And you most certainly don't have to be abused because he feels like it! It shouldn't have happened before and it shouldnt be still happening and if they can't stop it, it's time we do.  And don't give me that poop about how we wouldn't have to do all that if we dont attract their attention . Woman, is that poop even comprehendable FOR YOU! I dare you to say that when his hands are trying to get inside your shirt!

I don't want people to invent new smart phones that will look like the old ones. Or TVs that curve around or hell even chocolate that makes you lose weight. I want them to invent a device that slowly tortures everysingle ******* ********* ********** DISGUSTING ******* SON OF A ******* who goes around in the street whistling and telling you how he 'loves your bounce'. I Wish a hammer would bounce over his head until it's smashed!

And I wont ask if he 'has a sister' and 'how would you feel if someone did that to her'. I'm going for "one more step towards me and I'll poke your eyes out with my bare hands."

There's nothing funny about that. And you never take notice or care so much about that until one day you find yourself in such a situation. So I'm here to warn you one last time, no, it's not so unlikely that you'll get raped next time a guy starts following you and no, it's not so unlikely that no one will rescue you. So better safe than sorry.

Oh and for those who asked on TV how dare a woman say that she's been raped and doesn't she have any dignity. WHAT THE ****** ****** ********! ARE YOU ******** KIDDING ME YOU ******** SELF REPRODUCING *******!! So it's okay for guys to rape us but not okay for us to say that they did!

^^^^^ If I had superpowers I'd be a vallian just so I can kill those *********