Be A Girl

Limits

"You just crossed the limits."

What the hell ARE limits? No seriously. Who INVENTED them?

You want to know what I think? I think there's no such thing as limits. Well at least no constant limits. I think limits change to fit a person's personality. YOU choose you're own limits.

Let me try to make this clearer. So you want to do something real bad, but everyone thinks it's terribly not okay to do it. Or its totally crazy. Or an insane idea that they can never do. But there is problem. THEY cant and wont do it. Why does that have to mean YOU cant do it?

Just as well when everyone is doing something and it just so far beyond YOUR limits you dont want to do it. So they start to mock you and call you a chicken or a party pooper or whatever when in the first place this has  nothing to do with them!

I think everyone should have their own limits. Because limits are made due to personalities. A person's limits reflect their personality and there's no such thing as a bad or good personality. Every single personality is unique in its own way. It attracts certain people and repels others but those who dont like it can simply, without any further explaination, stick it where the sun never shines.

Excuse my rudeness. Or dont.

The point is. Never let ANYONE push you beyond your limits. You need to remember that this is YOUR one life chance. This is YOUR story. You write it how you want. Do what you would feel proud and happy remembering. Ditch whoever stands in the way of that. Be you. Limits exist. It never meant that you have to be bounded by all of them. Just choose the ones you are comfortable with.

And never care about what people say. You can never please anyone. If you are too up tight you're close minded and stupid. If you're easy going and fun you're a slut. People will always talk. No one really listens to them anymore. And those who do would change their minds if they knew you.

I am a muslim. I already said that before. But growing up, one of the things I faced was always being thought of as a terrorist by non-muslims. It really hurts. Another thing that I had to experience is the huge beliefs difference. Limits as people call it now. I put far more limits to myself than others. I dont believe I should drink. I dont believe in sexual relationships before marriage. I dont believe in alot of things. But I never judged anyone for believing otherwise. Because I know that just like I feel comfortable with these limits and wouldnt feel okay crossing them others wont feel happy with my limits. Because they need their own.

Alot of people will try to push your limits. And yes, success is always out of your comfort zone but you should always consider what you're doing. Ask yourself if 10 years from now you'd look back at it and be proud or happy. Only then do you push your limits.

I am sorry for the extremely late update. I am drowning in studies these days. And well.... never mind I'll tell you later.

I am always here if you need to talk. Just text me. Hope you're all fine :)

Be safe

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