Be A Girl

Bullying

Reason #6 I'm writing this: You should never let words bring your world down.

"There's is nothing more sick that a person bringing people down because he can't find the strength to get up"

"Tell a girl she's ugly and she'll live the rest of her life believing it"

Bullying: 

Words.

Funny. They are just a bunch of sounds or letters, combined together to form a meaning.. yet they can destroy someone's world. I just.. I want to get it and I dont.

Bullying is not just facing people make fun of you or hit you or pick on you. It's feeling like it's a curse you woke up in the morning because now you have to face those people. It's being convinced that you're dirt, because someone is hell bound on making you think you are. It's living in constant fear. It's relentless.

It's a nightmare you're not allowed to wake up from.

I don't get it. I don't get why anyone would bully anyone! No, actually, I get it and it makes me sick to my stomach! Someone comes and decides that the best way to get over her insecurities is by making everyone insecure? IS THAT IT! 

Dearest bully, do you actually get what you're doing? Do you understand how you make people feel! Let me just demonstrate: Take that feeling of insecurity you have, multiply it by ten, then stab yourself with a knife in the face. 

That is how you make people feel. 

You shut people down! You take their light away because simply, someone did the same to you. I don't know how you see that's fair, but it sure as hell isn't. What did you win! Are you happy now? Are you happy that she's broken on the floor? Do you even realise that the words you said have left her with brusies that dont heal?!

You break people, watch their light dull then wonder why their life is fading away. You know, suicide is not cowardly, I'll tell you what's cowardly, fucking people's life up that they want to end their life.. that's cowardly. 

You're a coward. And I'm sorry, that doesnt give you any power. It only makes you pitty you.. 

I'm writing this today, because I know words are magic. They can be used to end someone's life..or end his misery. 

Next time someone pushes you off the stairs..but wait, we girls play dirtier dont we! We dont just push off stairs.. we do stares and side talks and photoshopped photos on tumblr and lies and snears! We're supposed to be LADIES for God's sake. Girls play dirtier than boys..and we all know it! 

But here is the thing next time a girl laughs in your face or says something about you behind yourback, smile and walk away; because that's were she is supposed to stay; behind you. 

I know it's hard; they tell you to be yourself and then they judge you. But here is what I say. I say, be yourself and who the hell cares what they do?! 

Stop trying to hard. Stop caring. You're perfect the way you are and it never should matter what they think; Nothing is more beautiful than being who you are.

Those who bully others, one day, they were in the same exact place with someone disappointed in them. You shouldn't fear them; you should pitty them! They are weak and pethatic and most importantly.. they are angry with how their life is going. Maybe one day they will snap out of it.. but until they do they dont deserve a care.

Your life should be about you! You and only you!  The only thing that should matter is making yourself happy! Free! Find who you are and dont be afraid of it! 

Ignore them. Don't let them ever feel like they got to you. Show them your strong and shining and that their words will never get to you. Because you are; You're strong. You're sparkling. Dont back down or harm yourself! Fight back! Dont ever let them get to you because they arent even worth it! 

I dont think you're just beautiful. I think you're breathtaking. So next time you think of beautiful things..count yourself in!

Some people find it annoying that girls never believe they are beautiful. But I think it's only fair. We've been told mostly half of our lives that we look ugly and I think it's just fair that someone tells those girls that they are beautiful even more times then they were ever told they were ugly. 

And I will never get tired of trying to make you believe me. 

You're beautiful.

You're beautiful.

You're beautiful.

You're beautiful.

You're beautiful just the way you are.

#StopTheBully 

I'm here.. for when you fall literally or metaphorically. Just text me. I'll always be here.

Be safe. You are amazing..dont let the bullshit of today convince you otherwise