Hello readers,
Today something really crazy was about to happen and I am so happy I listened to my bestfriend because I was about to loose someone very important to me I feel so dumb for being blinded by jealousy . I guess this means story time lol.
I was talking to my man and I noticed a change in his mood and I'm like what the hell is going on I asked him but he said he was fine, so I text my bestie like you know what's going on with him and bestie says he saw him arguing with someone and the person he was arguing with bestie approached the person and asked what's up and the person told bestie a false story because the person is in love with my man and trying to take him , I guess because the person heard about me and my man and how I'm close with all of the crew so had made up story because he knew bestie would tell me .
The person told my bestfriend that something going on with my man and the person and I knew that they had something in past. I became so blindsided by jealousy because I was so afraid I was gonna loose him so I stupidly believed the false tale without thinking it all the way through because if only I would have stopped and thought about how the false tale didn't add up. None of the details made sense and I was telling my bestfriend I feel so sad and I was just snapping instead of stopping and thinking straight. I will never forget this stupid incident I feel so dumb but when I listened to my best friend explain how much the whole story made no sense it finally clicked in my brain how dumb I was to fall for this trap .
When I finally told my man what happened he was saying how would I ever believe that false tale but my dumb self actually did I felt even more stupid but when I was telling him what happened I left out the part that I actually began to believe the lies . I wanted to talk to my best friend about it first to see what should I do , his advise was to tell my man how how I felt and reacted so when I told my man he was so hurt and disappointed in me .I just felt so stupid I apologized so much even though I knew it wouldn't solve at least he would know that I understand I was in wrong because it was such a dumb mistake ,I could have approached this situation in a whole different way the outcome would have been so much more positive and better .
In the end me and my man talked about it, I guess it got a little better he understood as to why I reacted that and thought that way although he was still hurt but we got through it .
But lol that is a story how I almost lost my man I cant believe I was about to straight up attack him with false accusations , I'm just so happy that I've learned to listen more and thats what saved me lol.
LIFE LESSON: NEVER COME TO CONCLUSION WITHOUT SPEAKING ABOUT IT ,YOU WILL FIND YOURSEL IN A HELL HOLE . DON'T BELIEVE EVERYTHING YOU HEAR BEFORE CONFIRMATION .TRY NOT TO LET JEALOUSY GET THE BEST OF YOU AND JUST THINK THINGS ALL THE WAY THROUGH BEFORE REACTING .SOMETIMES LIFE TEST YOU BUT YOU HAVE CONTROL OVER YOURSELF, NEVER LET ANYONE HAVE THAT MUCH CONTROL ON YOU IN SUCH NEGATIVE WAY. IT'S OKAY TO MAKE MISTAKES WERE ALL HUMAN WE JUST HAVE TO LEARN FROM THEM.
PEACE AND BLESSINGS ,
ALWAYS REMEMBER THE NAME NBSY,WHERE LOVE COMES FIRST.
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AventuraMany people live through many adventures in their lives and it's not recorded or written . So ..... this is my story
