Melanin Drops: A POC Book

🗣 "I'm Not A HATER but..."

You see that title?? I wanna talk about this because I hear this on the daily. It really aggravates me because you're canceling out your whole point with that phrase. Like that is really gonna make me believe you aren't a hater. You shouldn't have to say it if what you are proceeding to say wasn't a sliver of hate.

To me that like saying "I'm not racist but...", and you KNOW how that ends.

I heard something in particular in someone's book here (no hate or shade) and they were talking about someone and literally, every other word is an appellative for the hate they are expressing. You have the right to your own opinion by all means, but what that person said was so crazy, it made no sense. After reading a paragraph, I had to stop.

I also want to say this, because I know a lot of people are gonna say, "I have the right, to my opinion." "It's a free country, freedom of speech." Okay, I get that but, do you really want to say all that. To hate someone? It's all very unnecessary, I don't get how you could give that much emotion to a person ... that ... you ... don't ... even ... like.

Think about it, you strongly dislike like someone but put that much time into thinking about that person, typing a thousand miles an hour about that person, et cetera, et cetera.

To me, hate is really an amalgamated form of many emotions people struggle from. It's not plainly just "I dislike this person a great deal." That's what I think, but I'm not a specialist on this nor, did I study this. It just seems to me that when someone hates someone and they tell me about it, it's ALWAYS more to it. The main thing, insecurity, lack of confidence, jealousy, and IGNORANCE.

I hope this didn't offend anyone or hurt anyone's feelings, but that gonna happen on this earth. If you wanna be successful in life, you have to take criticism and turn it into something greater. I'm gonna speak my mind, just like other are going to as well but I love you all, no hate goes on over here.

Also like I will always say, IF THE SHOES FITS, LIKE CINDERELLA, YOU BETTER WEAR IT!

And I will end with a question ..

What do you think hate is?

love,

black girl ki.

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