Choose your friends

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ni hanarilee

ni hanarilee

Me: Denver, friend mo ba sila kuya Fritz?

Denver: no? Haha.

Kuya Fritz: Friends kami no.

Me: oh, good for you. Choose your friends wisely just like me. I chose my friends wisely that's why I don't have friends.

He laughed.

Because true enough, being alone is better than to be with bad companion. It would only lead to uneasiness and feelings of isolation. That feeling when you're not free?

Being alone and doing your own business doesn't require socialization skills. You don't have to mind someone's feelings. You don't have to adjust for other people.

You are free to do what you want. You're sleepy? You can sleep without offending someone.

Nobody will stop you from doing things that you want and at the same time, nobody will force you to do the things that you do not like.

There's just you. Only you. No pretentions. No shackles.

If you allow toxic people to be your friends, you will be stressed. Who wants to be stressed in a bad way? Lol.

Having bad friends is futile. In the end you will still leave or they will leave you. What's the purpose of having friends if you can't be yourself with them? If you are not having fun? If they are only present when they need you?

Di'ba ang purpose ng friends to be there for you through the good and the bad times? So kung di nila nafulfill yung function na yun, ano sila? Display? Haha.

Bad friends are not friends. They are strangers/users.

Having bad friends, is bringing chaos in your life, in your emotional being and drinking poison that will kill your heart and soul.

In being alone, you may seek happiness and peace from that chaos.

Be brave. Walk alone. Held up your chin high. You are independent.

Choose quality over quantity.

P.S: The convo was already old. Way back 2017 pa. I was able to recall it all thanks to my journal. Hahaha. I have friends now by which hindi ko pinagsisihan because I am sure that they are true. :)

I hope that you also find your true friends. Nandyan lang sila sa paligid. You just have to carefully filter people in your life. Okay?