The little things

Just something

This is just something I wanted to say. There is a lot of hate in the world.

And I get that everyone has a right to voice their opinion but at least be considerate about it, because if you call someone an untalented and bitchy fuck, you aren't voicing an opinion you're just being mean and you could keep it to yourself.

And if somebody notices you hating and says something like 'I understand you don't like it, but if you don't like it then don't watch/listen and don't leave hate comments' don't attack them, they were nice about it unlike others who turn into the devil and will do anything to protect the person/band etc being hated on.

And hate can have a bigger impact than people realise, because lately I have had a lot of hate in real life and online and it had knocked my confidence quite a bit.

I am not confident with my writing or my sports which I love so much. I am wary of being the nerd I am. I have become very self conscious of my voice and I have lost major body confidence.

And people around me are noticing, they're saying my sparkle, the thing that makes me, me, is missing. And my friends, family, teachers and peers are all noticing that I'm not who I was.

And personally I hate that, and no matter how hard I try to go back I can't because I keep getting people chipping at my confidence.

And there are many others in similar or worse situations than me and it is difficult.

We need to stop hate and start thinking before we open our mouths.

And remember if there is someone who constantly hates on you its bullying, and even if there's a onetime comment online or in real life, no matter what the situation, tell somebody, whether it a teacher, parent/carer a friend, anyone who can help.

It's not banter, it not just a joke or a laugh, there are real people with real emotions reading this messages.

And it's time it stopped.

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