"Ikaw na bahala" is uncomfortable.
This statement itself is uncertainty. You keep on guessing what the other person truly wants. You estimate it yourself. then when you give a specific choice, if that person still says "Ikaw na bahala" you keep on adding more. Everytime you ask if that's enough, and if the answer is still "ikaw bahala", you giving will never end. Palaki na nang palaki binibigay and offer mo pero di pa rin sigurado if sakto na ba.
Pinapahirapan niyo buhay ng tao sa mind reading. Tas litong lito ka na if na over ka ba ng bigay, nakulang ka ng bigay, or if sakto lang.
Sometimes, you do not really want the person to be uncomfortable by demanding. and that's understandable. Well, Filipino value of Hiya. But if a choice was given, perhaps you could confirm/affirm with: "sige", or another suggestion if you didn't agree. If you really want to be considerate sa person na nago-offer, give certainty at least.
yun lang.
BINABASA MO ANG
Twisted thoughts
Non-FictionThe writer is twisted. Bear with it. A twisted mind writes unique thoughts.
