Questioning everything

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“I live everyday, day by day.
I will go wherever life takes me.
I’m not questioning it.”
– Sabrina Carpenter


Questioning things has a unique way of taking control over thought process and our emotions. Sometimes, they become a hectic routine that
never allows us to settle down or let us embrace peace of mind.

Unanswered questions that roam around our heads are mostly derived out of our fears and insecurities about the issues about which they crop up.

Life itself is a question for which there had been given no specific, defined answer. We tend to eventually find them on our own for our life. Never too soon; never too late. Letting go of those questions is the easiest way of releasing their grip on us. Trying to find answers to all those questions will put us on a path that has no destination. Go with the flow for now, take one step at a time and soon, the dots will get connected.

We question when we don’t know something, it is called healthy questioning. When questioning pervades areas where life, people, emotions
dwell, all that you can possibly get out of such mental inquiry is a troubled conscience that doesn’t allow you to sleep. Questioning is acceptable to an extent where you remain in the driver seat and control its flow, as to
how long the question and answer session can go on or how long you can remain calm with the roiling inside your head.

Questions that roam inside our heads can be tackled in two ways after you spend a little energy on stripping the question and analyzing its objects of interest like who or what does the thoughts mainly focus on. One, if it concerns you and your life related intra-personal matter, then first attempt at finding the root cause by traveling on timelines and calm your mind by either an acceptable solution, or drain its energy to see
how the questioning is really useless and pointless at that time; then, you can always turn to someone very close to your heart and share. Two, if it involves inter-personal matters, instead of piling up the questions, analyze if it is a worthy one to be spent time and energy on. Then, open up to the concerned persons, and they will certainly make you see clear skies again.

It is that simple. Make sure you are not bothering anyone by unwanted/irritating questions in order to please yourself, that’s very wrong.

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