SO WHAT SHE IS HAVING SEX WITH AN AMOUNT OF GUYS YOU FIND "UN-LADYLIKE" AND "NOT SOCIALLY ACCEPTED"?
SO WHAT SHE IS WEARING CLOTHING THAT SEEMS RACY TO YOU OR IS TOO INTRIGUING?
DOES THAT MEAN SHE'S A SLUT?
LEMME ANSWER THAT FOR YOU.
Oh one more thing.
Men could have sex with so many women and would be considered a "hero" or "legend" to other guys. Let a woman have sex with two different guys in one month and that women will receive backlash from both men and women being called a hoe and a slut.
It's like when men cheat on women it's more acceptable than when women cheat on men. Both are in the wrong, yet one is better than that other.
And I'm not saying that slut-shaming is only towards women. It's also towards men. Ever seen a man be called a "man-whore"? That's slut shaming. Only thing is why do we call them a "man-whore" rather than just a whore? It just proves that "whore" and "slut" is only used to degrade women and in order to make it usable for men you must add "man" in front.
Let them have sex. There's nothing wrong with it. I mean people out here watch porn with a female getting it from two males and call it entertainment but when they find out it actually happened in real life they just lose their minds. Like weren't you just watching that and enjoying the fact that the female and the males were enjoying it? Sooooo what's the problem?
And just because they were racy clothing don't mean they're a slut. Yeah some people do this without knowing. You see someone outside wearing booty shorts and you're just like why did she have come outside like that. And it may not seem like it, but you're shaming her. Sometimes it's not the person's fault. The way I was raised was that you can't go outside showing too much skin or you're just gonna bring trouble onto yourself or receive stares you won't like, like I stated before in a previous chapter. BUT you can stop that. I see someone in shorts and a tank top and I praise them because they love their skin and they know they're sexy. Let them be.
Praise them for being able to go outside like that in a world where they know they're gonna get shamed and not giving a damn. Don't shame them for the same reason.
Stop the slut-shaming. It ain't cool.
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