A Black Girl Ranting

Unofficial Relationships

Before I start, I would love to thank ThePinkHooligan. I love your story The Hills Have Eyes and seeing the description for your book just helped me choose my next topic for this book.

Alright lemme stop fangirling, cause not sure if she'll see this.

But if you do... Thanks for looking at this chapter ☺☺☺

Unofficial Relationships

As you see this generation definition of a relationship is now claiming someone to be there's, yet one partner being able to talk to other people, while the other must stay loyal to that partner.

Um. Again.

*Kevin Hart's Voice*

Sit-Sit the fuck down. Sit the fuck down.

Our generation now thinks that having sidehoes is a good thing to have. Like, I mean if you gonna be with me I'm gonna be the main chick and the side chick. I am everything. How you gonna be talking to me, tell me you love me, that I'm the only one, yet you saying the same thing to five other girls? Nah boy, grow the fuck up. I mean even in elementary school, if you had a girlfriend and talked to another girl, your ass was getting dumped or punched. Well that happened in my elementary school. 

And I won't lie, it's funny in the vines. When the side chick "steps over her boundaries" or when the guy succeeds in deleting his messages in three seconds or when the guy runs for miles just to get his phone cause he left it near his girl. Yeah it's funny. But if we actually think about it, it's type fucked up. 

You can't trust your own boyfriend because he can possibly be talking to ten other bitches, and can have the messages deleted by the time he shows you. When they won't give you the password to the phone that means he hiding something. When he comes back for his phone just because he left it near you he hiding something. If you try to check his phone, and he snatches it away in a suss way then he hiding something. If you're the side chick, then you need to reevaluate your whole situation. You shouldn't be anyone's side anything. You deserve to have a relationship where you're treated right and given all the love you want and need. Not to be kept a secret, and then have to tell all his friends you're the main one, knowing damn well you ain't. 

Oh. And that password thing and deleting messages thing don't only apply to guys. It applies to females too. 

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Also this whole claiming thing if you're allowed to talk to other people. Like why the fuck? You like the person, but you obviously don't like them enough if you still talking to other females. Why tell the other person they under lock-and-key, but you able to make other people feel the same way. Telling them they bae, and can't be anyone else's bae, yet you can. 

Like stop. 

I read this really good quote earlier. I don't know if you read it but this is it:

Don't expect your girl to play her role when you have other girls auditioning for her part.

Basically. 

Do. Not. Have. Side. Chicks.

Or. Side. Guys. 

This doesn't pertain to those that are flirting because they know they not in a relationship at all, or don't have anyone they like. I mean flirting is a fun thing to do. 

Not when you're taken. 

Now if you not sure whether you taken or not ... Well need to get checked ASAP. 

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DON'T BE SIDE CHICKS GUYS. Y'ALL DESERVE MORE THAN THAT, MY LITTLE INNOCENTS. :)

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