Okay so this one of the many things that we have double standards on.
Guy masterbates:oh it's cool...boys will be boys...he's just discovering himself...that's normal...it's a guy thing
Girl masterbates: oMG THAT IS DISGUSTING...such a whoreish move...how could you even do that...be a lady
Okay so like since when is relieving sexual frustrations disgusting? I mean if she has sex with two guys in her life she's a whore, and now that she decides to pleasure herself she's still a whore???
Error 18363: Logic not found.
A guy is able to explore his body and touch himself and fondle with his stuff, yet it's not "ladylike" for a girl to do the same? People expect girls to know about their bodies, yet when it comes to one actually asking about it, she is turned down and said that she'll learn some other time. When will she learn? When she actually decides to have sex? You want the male to tell HER about HER own body? No! It's my body. I decide how it works. I decide what I like. If I like to masturbate this way then I'll do it this way. I don't need a man explaining to me MY body because it is up to ME to know about it.
Girls are already taught from a young age that sex is something you should avoid, yet boys are taught that it's an achievement and it means you're finally a man. Or even before sex. When he discovers he could get horny and start stroking himself, he's a man! Yet when girls hit that age they're confused because we're taught anything going on with our bodies must be kept to ourselves.
And not only that, apparently girls who masturbate are a turn off to guys.
Like I don't give a fuck if a guy doesn't appreicate the fact that I masturbate like shit I'm still reaching that climax without so move the fuck along. But whoever made up this lie is ridiculous.
The amount of guys I've seen actually praise girls masturbating is surprising actually. Some find it hot because it's hot a girl knows what to do. Or also that the girl is hot. But it's hot the girl knows what turns her on. So the question is who is still spreading these rumors that masturbation is disgusting and not ladylike. Like shit you can't expect me to be a lady in the bed. A girl finna get freaky just saying. So leave that ladylike shit at the door.
Sex education classes?
That shit still exists?
I didn't need any sex ed class to tell me what I know. I had to do my own research. Hell reading books taught me what sex was when I was curious about it. My mom never gave me "the talk", and she knows I know what sex is. There are times when touches on topics like this and spits straight facts but she never sat me down and said "A guy has a penis and girl has a vagina." She never told me about what happens during sex. She never told me what a clitoris and that it could be stimulated. She never told me about what masturbation was. But eventually I knew. And you know how? Because I was curious and also because of google.
Masturbation is healthy.
Oops! This image does not follow our content guidelines. To continue publishing, please remove it or upload a different image.
It doesn't just feel good, it is good. And that's what some people fail to realize. Masturbating is getting healthy blood flow down there and to keep circulation down there going a okay. And if the circulation is good, then your sex organs are going fine.
May I also mention it's safe???
Oops! This image does not follow our content guidelines. To continue publishing, please remove it or upload a different image.
Like you're not getting any STDs by masturbating, and you're not getting preggos. It's 100% safe.
Bottom line:
MASTURBATION ISN'T SOMETHING TO BE ASHAMED OF. You can't be ashamed for being the curious soul you are. You can't be ashamed for wanting to know what you have and how it works.
Only you know your body. Nobody else but yourself.
