Kanhaaji and his tests on Mishbir

ABIRA CADABRA - THE MAGIC THAT IS ABIR RAJVANSH

"I've got sunshine on a cloudy day.
When it's cold outside I've got the month of May.
I guess you'd say
What can make me feel this way?
My girl

I've got so much honey the bees envy me.
I've got a sweeter song than the birds in the trees.

I don't need no money, fortune or fame.
I've got all the riches, baby, one man can claim ..."

Because HE HAS Mishti and she is his magic wand.

A magician without a wand and a wand without a magician are both useless and in a subtle but emphatic and romantic way, the poet that Abir is, he explains it to Mishti that without her he will be totally broken, sad and lost.

"Mishti tumhe pata hai, meri khushi tumsey related hai. Directly proportional type, agar tum haasti ho tou main khush hota hoon."

The thing that has Abir waking up every morning, go through the rut of the day and tackle the challenges that the day brings with it is Mishti his love for her and his feeling to protect her and his family. Abir is able to do it with renewed vigor but with a heavy heart because of his beloved's presence. She is mentally in a state that is a helpless and latent one but still just her physical presence motivates him.

Mishti is reminded that her mental absence in her inability to help Abir is also fine because her angry chorni side has taken a hiatus but she needn't feel guilty. Just her physical presence means the world to Abir and that is going to be the fundamental thing that's going to help her heal.

The magic that's Abir.

"Kya world mein aisa kuch hai jo tum nahi kar saktey"

Right now, he is her God, her hero because he fixes everything for her.

Boys, take notes...

Abir Rajvansh is living the truth that is "Pati Parmeshwar", and he doesn't demand, doesn't abuse, treats her with love, utmost kindness and patience, tends to her every need at every waking/sleeping hour and not just hers but the whole family, EVEN THOUGH A STORM BREWS INSIDE HIS HEART ALL THE TIME, and with not much support.

Yes, a number of things he can't do...

"Udd Nahi sakta, ek pahiye waali cycle chala nahin sakta, paani ke andhar saans nahin ley sakta."

Boys, even if you can ride a unicycle and can breathe for a short while underwater, can perform other macho acts, the essence of real man is when he cares for his partner and those around him and treats them with love, kindness and respect.

Now, that the Karan truth is out, a part of Abir will become stronger because the guilt of him hiding it from her was breaking him. Love is when the other person's happiness is more than your own.

Love is composed of a single soul inhabiting two bodies.

With Mishbir it has always been two souls with a single thought and two hearts that beat as one.

They say give your loved ones the wings to fly, roots to come back to and reasons to stay. BP BM and Abir have given Mishti that happiness and safe place though she still has a long way to go from being a victim. She already felt broken and now because of this trauma she feels all the more removed. It was heart breaking to hear her refer to herself as "manhoos" and "grahan".

That's a terrible way for anyone to feel and people around her, the environment and now the trauma has strengthened the negative feelings inside her heart. Both Abir and Mishti need help and I do hope makers insist on showing that its very normal to get help from mental health professionals.

Mama takes a step forward and ensures that Abir and Mishti have his kindness and support. He was quiet earlier but proved today that he will take that step to protect Mishti as the ghar ki beti to protect Abir's happiness. Maami still says inconsiderate things, Meenu on a mission of her own and Kuhu as usual on a "Mishti ki wajaah...ussey destroy karkey rahungi" mission. Ketki is at present a cat on the wall. Varun's insinuations are scary and he also seems at present to be company to Ketki.

So, with Maamu, Maasi, Kunal (right now), Naanu and Jugnu, the army of Mishbir Love is growing every day. The day Meenu becomes a component will be the most significant one in Mishti's life because that's the day her feeling of having come from a broken home will vanish gradually. I wish for Abir's sake Meenu turns a new leaf.

Just watching his elation when his mother gives Mishti the Jhumkaas was priceless and a real joy. When the "Jaan" that is his family accepts his personal "jaan" will be the historic day when Mishti truly becomes a "Rajvansh".

Helen Keller has said that "The best and most beautiful things in the world cannot be seen or even touched - they must be felt with the heart."

But the Magic that's Abir Rajvansh can be seen and can also be felt and not just by Mishti but by everyone around him. At the moment, some just fail to accept it.

Meenu probably feels it on some level because she told Kuhu in no uncertain terms that in Duniya's nazar Abir is her beta and Mishti is attached to him so you better not mess with my son.

It's just a blessing to have some people in their lives. Good people are like candles; they burn themselves so that others can see the light. Abir has done that time and time again for his family. Even Nirmala cannot challenge the Rajvansh Fragrance that is mostly Abir.

Kuhu, a note that you should take from your bro and his magic – those who shine from within do not need a spotlight.