Kanhaaji and his tests on Mishbir

YOUR FOCUS BECOMES YOUR REALITY

Our mind is a heterogenous mixture of different thought molecules colliding with each other. The bouncing thoughts in our mind gain energy, exactly like the molecules of gas in a container gain kinetic energy when heated. As long as Meenu's mind is heated by intense vile desire the movement of the agitated molecules will be like a monkey in her brain.

When her molecules of thoughts gain kinetic energy in the vessel that is her devious mind, the energy explodes into action aided by knowledge and skills. In Meenu's case however, its selfish desire with repeated bouncing thoughts, her fading reason, dwindling discipline plus her disappearing integrity.

The right values of the nuclear plant of a psychological mind that is Mishti's has courage and power which will be her catalysts for the nuclear reaction that will perhaps start next week.

This brings into my mind John Wheeler's famous "delayed choice" Gedanken experiment.

Wheeler asked the interesting question of "Does a massive quantum particle – such as an atom – in a double-slit experiment behave differently depending on when it is observed?"

In the famous double-slit experiment, single particles, such as photons, pass one at a time through a screen containing two slits. If either path is monitored, a photon seemingly passes through one slit or the other, and no interference will be seen. Conversely, if neither is checked, a photon will appear to have passed through both slits simultaneously before interfering with itself, acting like a wave.

The wave that is Meenakshi Rajvansh separately first passes through Abir and Mishti, then tries her way through Kunal and Kuhu, to wreak havoc. Any emotion is also a form of energy. Meenu's active calibrating mind sends waves of disguised greed and insecurity, passes through each of her children and leaves a wave of chaos - nothing but dissent, doubt and trepidation in Kunal especially; Abir never has fallen for that. She carefully calculates, observes Kunal wanting to help his Bhai and manipulates him by using terms like asli beta etc., Kuhu loving the family and being apni and Kunal is left with no choice but to comply despite confusion

He who has a firm will, moulds the world to himself and Meenakshi Rajvansh is trying to build her own world with her own dreams by emotionally blackmailing and playing Kunal. This observation and this particle behavior go both ways in both the observer and observed, because Kunal reacts to the sentiments of his mother both biological and foster and also to his brother and later to his Maamu and Kuhu too. Similarly, with Abir, Mishti BP and BM, where positivity reigns despite nervousness, and trepidation.

Meenu's a sick dying mind fragmented with conflicting thoughts cannot reflect the light of truth, just as you can't see the sun's reflection in muddy water. The mind should be smooth and whole without any cracks, like a clean mirror to reflect the light of the wisdom and reality.

True luck consists not in holding the best of the cards at the table

Luckiest he, who knows just when to rise and go home. And Meenu just doesn't quit

Practical wisdom as we understand it is nothing but presence of a crystal-clear mind, enhanced with keen powers of clear-cut observation into reality to understand the truth. This human faculty grows to its natural potential and prospers if unhampered by fear, greed, jealousy. Unlike animals, man has a choice of action or thoughts. He does not have a coded wisdom instilled as an instinct into his system. His rich experiences and exposure to the challenges of life enrich his knowledge and he can make a wise choice when in dilemma.

Animals have natural coded instinct for survival and are endowed by the extra power of observation. Fishes can sense a hailstorm in the sea and send signals of impending danger, sheep stand huddled with their young ones at the center when a storm breaks and the police dogs can sniff out criminals. The wisdom of the animal world has no contradiction in their lives. Their behavior confirms to a set pattern determined by nature.

We, as humans despite having been given the power of choice, though often don't utilize it well. We often draw hasty conclusions based on the misunderstanding and even non comprehension of reality. We misuse our choice of action being prompted by our personal prejudices and dogmas, like Meenu is doing with her manipulation and her perceived moral notion of right and wrong.

She is devoid of commonsense and concentrates in creating an order in the external world while her internal world is rotting with lack of wisdom. She is insensitively, seeking security and happiness in a false, illusory manipulation of Kunal and his goodwill. That's like seeking shelter on the back of a whale, in an ocean of waaris, mistaking it for an island/asli heir. Pretty soon, the whale will drown her and it usually does not shown any mercy towards its victims.

Abir and Mishti are very cultured and are aware of the beauty of life and hence are never tired mentally for long. Their minds are energetic and powerfully creative and enthusiastic in everything they face. They never let themselves be constrained by faiths, beliefs or reasoning because they do not want to be governed with limitations. They accept pain and pleasures with perfect equanimity as a part of reality and strive at controlling the internal mind rather than the external world. When the road is strewn with shards of glass you wear sturdy, strong and good shoes to protect your feet. You do not go about covering the road with padded foam cushion.

For the resolution of a problem, there must be this awareness, this passive alertness which reveals its total process.

The equilibrium of assimilation of all positive energy and faculties towards a constructive phase or thinking will help us revel in the joy of living. This joy can be yours too, if you practice the art of self-discipline that leads you to dignity, integrity, self-esteem and a sense of justice the four pillars of the citadel called the art of living.

The powers of the mind are like the rays of the sun dissipated

When they are concentrated, they illumine

Kuhu perhaps is already pregnant and now all the four of them Mishbir and Kuku, will bring up Kuhu-Kunal's baby to be.

History repeats itself sometimes as a tragedy like with Parul Maasi when she brought Kunal to Rajvansh Sadan and sometimes as a farce like Karma in full form serving its bittersweet dish to Meenakshi Rajvansh.