About companionship. Telling someone that you don't want them in your life, just because you don't want them in your life, is a legitimate answer. You don't have to explain yourself. You don't have to make excuses for their behavior being bad. You don't have to justify your lack of desire.
You won't have chemistry with everyone. Everyone was not mean to be close with you. It's fine to have associates and acquaintances too, along with friends, a partner, family, and other loved ones. Being incompatible with someone doesn't mean that you're a failure. Just not having a functioning relationship dynamic with someone doesn't automatically make you a bad person.
You don't have to force the issue due to feeling rejected and/or feeling abandoned. It just wasn't meant to be. It takes two mutually and willingly consenting persons to try to make any type of human relationship work. Relationships are hard work so you both need to feel like it's worth the trouble. Relationships should happen naturally and flow organically. You don't have to fake love.
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Maturing in Love by Rhizome Olivia Quondam
ChickLitMaturing in Love is an anthology guide of adulthood with poems, stories, essays, and blog posts about mature themes, learning self-love, adult-relationships, social issues, and life lessons from growing older. *The blog posts are topic introductions...
