Please understand. No matter how much you hate someone, your hatred does not, and cannot, make that person any less human. Not now. Not ever. Your hatred doesn't negate their feelings. Your hatred will never validate your hatefulness. Your feelings of hatred don't give you the right to oppress/harass/otherwise victimize another human being. Human beings all have unalienable rights.
Your hatefulness is 100% because of your own lack of love for someone; it is 100% your refusal to empathize with another human being. Your hatefulness is 100% your conscious decision to make another human being feel subhuman. Your feelings aren't facts, so stop psychologically projecting/attributing.
Your hatefulness is 100% your failure; your hatefulness is 100% your fault. You can't always control how you feel about someone, but you are 100% in control of how you treat or mistreat others.
Hate is a destroyer. Hate is dehumanizing. Hate is deluding. Hatred is a liar. Hatred is an incompetence. Hatefulness is a weakness of character, a character defect. No one deserves your hatefulness; control your temper. You're an adult now; there's no excuse.
And if anyone can't seem to understand/accept this, I am not a psychiatrist, nor am I a psychologist, but I strongly suggest that you get both, before you commit any human rights violations. Because, hatefulness is why we have to have laws that protect human rights.
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Maturing in Love by Rhizome Olivia Quondam
ChickLitMaturing in Love is an anthology guide of adulthood with poems, stories, essays, and blog posts about mature themes, learning self-love, adult-relationships, social issues, and life lessons from growing older. *The blog posts are topic introductions...
