Boring = no personality + no confidence + no chemistry. The problem is that until men open up, and are themselves, they are being boring; we aren't interested until he is being interesting. We want to know "who exactly is this man?"
Some men try too hard to impress us, and they then seem insincere to us. Our questions are: "Could I want him? What about him makes me want him? Could I want to be with him? What about him makes me want to be with him?"
The truth is that there have been guys, who we have found boring, until they started talking about something that they are passionate about. Women want to know more about a man. If it's a shared interest, we have finally discovered common ground to actually have a conversation about. There needs to be a connection.
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Maturing in Love by Rhizome Olivia Quondam
ChickLitMaturing in Love is an anthology guide of adulthood with poems, stories, essays, and blog posts about mature themes, learning self-love, adult-relationships, social issues, and life lessons from growing older. *The blog posts are topic introductions...
