Back Stage - OT8

Dom Training

Keep everything safe, sane, and consensual.

Some BDSM may simply include taking or giving orders, role playing, or receiving intense but not painful stimulation.

Practicing BDSM is about a lot more than the act of having sex. In fact, "a scene" may not involve sex or, even touching, at all. You'll find that many of the common themes — power dynamics, pain, humiliation, the taboo — are psychological in nature.

A simple translation of this concept to the kink is when you use a particular sex toy. For example, a dildo. If you use it frequently enough, it could elicit a desired sexual arousal response. Or even just a simple command. For example, you say "Spread your legs, slave." Done correctly, just saying these words could trigger your slave to be wet and execute the command instantly. The command is the stimulus.'

Some subs might prefer to jump right into it, but should your submissive prefer to have a pre-session ritual, so be it. Doing a sensual ritual before the submissive training/play session helps you connect with your sub on a deeper level. Examples of pre-session rituals are having a warm bath together, intense make out sessions, or giving your sub a sensual massage.

The best way to train a Dom is to have them experience being a Sub first. This lets them see the others perspective and know how important their role is.

If a dominant person happens to fall for another dominant, then they will most likely feel as though they can be submissive for their partner and only them, and will often take a submissive as a pet so that they can meet the needs of their dominant side.

They also do not have to have Dominance and Submission involved in their relationship, not all relationships are d/s in the lifestyle.

"Are you serious?" Changbin asked, after reading the information.

"Yes." Hyunjin said.

"Dead serious." Lee Know Said.

"You're not playing a prank on me, are you?" He half laughed. He was just very confused. There's no way they do these things.

"Changbin." Changbin looked to their Hyung. His face screamed, "Does it look like I'm kidding."

So, Changbin took it all in. Everything they told him, showed him. Every photo, video, toy, instrument, and tool.

Then did something they didn't expect...

He ran.

The two looked at each other confused, before the initial shock wore off and they ran after him.

"Changbin Hyung!" Hyunjin shouted after him, but he was literally running around the house dodging them to no avail.

They finally cornered him in the media room, all of them out of breath.

It's a good thing they didn't take him to the club first.

"Changbin-Ah." Lee Know tried again to calmly approach him. Changbin still took a step back.

"I didn't know he literally meant whips and chains! You crazy bastards!"

"Well what did you think we meant when we said BDSM?!"

"I just thought you guys might've liked it rough!" Changbin exasperated. He doesn't even remember how they got here. Just this morning everything was going fine. They had fun, mostly, completing their videos for interview day. Then were just playing around until the couple asked to talk about their relationship.