I know that everyone has done this before and I've got to admit that I've done it myself too.
Comparing yourselves to other people who you 'think' are better than you is stupid, I realized that now because all that it is doing to you is making you feel bad about yourself. No one wants to feel that their not good enough, everyone is always unique in their own way. Even if you don't get compliments as much as the other person, or if you didn't get as much likes on a photo than someone else, It doesn't mean that you're any lesser than them. It just means that they made a lot of friends.
Like I said before everyone has their own style, personality, taste, and if you're copying them or comparing yourselves to them then stop because you don't have to copy someone else to be perfect or better because being yourself is what really matters. Being yourself makes you the person you were born to be.
Never compare yourself because it just ruins your day and it's definitely not worth it.
Don't let one or two insecurities ruin your life.
Also if someone says to you in person that your ugly or say something mean then just shove your fingers up their nostrils. Okay gross maybe not, but haters gonna hate right? And your just gonna shake it off.
You guys have to understand something, in life you're always going to get judged even if you try to avoid it, it will always come to you. Everyone in this world has been judged before, so don't let that get you down.
If that person has good hair, your hair is just as good, some people don't even have hair. Or if that person has the perfect body who bloody cares because 1 you don't have to have a perfect body to be happy, as long as your happy with yourself then that's all that matters 2 don't try to get yourself as skinny as a twig because it's good to have some meat on yourself (not like literally raw meat on your skin, but you know what I'm trying to say) 3 don't ever think that you're not going to get loved because there is always someone out there for you who will accept you for who you are, and if they don't accept you then pshh bitch please, you're to good for him/her.
Be confident with yourself, because if you have the confidence you'll never get hurt by others.
"Comparison is the thief of Joy" - Theodore Roosevelt
I know that the picture above or on the side doesn't have anything to do with this topic but it's funny and I thought that I should lighten the mood up a bit :)
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