Seducing My Nerdy Husband (Completed)

Chapter 35

Sofia's POV
   
 
How To Seduce A Man?
by: Mr. Payne

Ladies, Rule #1... To become the ultimate object of every man’s desire, you have to learn how to appeal to his senses.

Men are all about visuals.

They all want a girl who is visually stimulating, dresses sexy, and is very
flirtatious.

Step 1: You need to learn how to dress for success.

Seduction is not about being good looking, it's all about looking good!

Men are not attracted to the way a woman looks, they're all attracted to the way a woman dresses.

Men are driven by 2 key aspects in their pursuit for a mate:

Sexuality and Sensuality.

We are all attracted to women who dress sexy, are feminine, act sensual, have confidence, like to flirt and have a very positive attitude.

All guys want a woman who looks good.

The way you dress, screams confidence and screams attitude. It is the best way to
initially capture his attention and drive him
crazy!

To understand the male psyche, you need to
learn ...What Men Really Want.

Men are all attracted to 3 qualities about a
woman:

1) The way a woman dresses
2) The way she talks
3) The way she behaves

#2: Seduce Him Mentally

Seduction is a mental process. Not a physical one. You
seduce him mentally by the way you talk, act and behave.
Remember men are driven by sexuality and sensuality. It's 90% mental and only 10%
physical. The only reason why you need to look good is because men won’t respond to
you if they don’t feel any attraction towards you.

BUT
Even if they don’t initially feel a physical attraction, the way you talk, flirt, tease, and behave WILL create a powerful physical
attraction toward you.

Seduce him physically and he will be yours for 1 night. Learn how to seduce him mentally and he will be yours forever!

#3: Give Him A Challenge

So many women are doing great with guys when all of a sudden, he leaves to pursue someone else.

  So many women make the
mistake of coming on to him way too much or way too strong. They pay guys compliments and begin to pursue them. A man will lose interest in you if he realizes that he can have you.

Please understand Ladies, Men do not want you to want them and they don’t want it when its too easy.

Quality men, real men, the type of guy that all of you are attracted to .... want a
challenge! They want to be intrigued when they first
meet you, they want to be taken by you and they want to be kept on the edge of their seats...
They want a challenge!!

WHY?
Because men live for the thrill of the chase.

The second we know we can have you, we will toss you aside or place you on hold and pursue another woman.
We will only come back to you if we got rejected by the other woman and only to please our own selfish needs.

»Grabe naman. Gano'n ba lahat ang mga lalake?««

Don’t let this ever happen to you again!
Give him a challenge.

Tease him, pick on him, reject him, send him mixed signals and he will be crazy about you.

Tell him you love him, you want him and you need him and he will run far away from you!

»So, hindi ko siya sasabihan ng I love you? Ang labo naman ng librong to«

    Inilipat ko sa kabilang pahina ang binabasa ko dahil nagsisimula na akong mawalan ng interes dito.

  Napahinto ako sa rule number 9...

#9: Be Enthusiastic And Exciting In The Bedroom

Ladies, this is very important... Guys love women who are very enthusiastic and exciting in the bedroom.

«Napalunok ako sa nabasa ko...»

Remember, men love powerful, confident women and they're all driven by sexuality and sensuality.

A shy girl in the bedroom or during intimacy is a BIG turn off to most men.

That's why guys love to pursue promiscuous girls. Because they think to
themselves"wow, she would be amazing in bed".

Did you know that every man you have ever met in your entire life, at some point, has thought to himself whether he would have sex with you or not?

»O.O Seryoso ba 'to?«

Believe me, its true!
He has even imagined how you would be in bed. Sometimes within seconds of meeting
you!

»O.O Seconds?!«

This is how men are ... These are the thoughts that go through our minds!

Now, that doesn't mean you have to sleep with the guys you are attracted to right away to keep their attention. On the contrary, it means they will have so
much more to look forward too and will actually wait to sleep with you, because their imaginations will run wild thinking, erotic thoughts about you, leading to them to inadvertently falling in love with you.

If you want to wrap him around your finger and get him to want to see you over and over again, AND make sure he doesn't
go elsewhere, you must give him that excitement he so desperately seeks in a mate. You have to be enthusiastic, exciting and amazing in the bedroom! Simply put ladies... men want a woman
who is a lady on the streets and freak in the sheets.

I know you don't want hear this but guys love girls who are slutty and uninhibited in the bedroom.
Now, most women are not porn stars and it doesn't matter if you are not great in bed, or do not know how to do all those things men like. (although I will teach you)

»No way! Hindi ako magpapaturo«

All that matters is that you have a positive attitude, have a lot of enthusiasm and are very excited in the bedroom. You have to be
passionate about pleasing your man.

Guys love it so much when women initiate the intimacy. They also love it when you
encourage them and tell them what you like and how much you are enjoying it.

»I blush at the thought of him and me in ...«

If you want your man to be yours and only yours, it is imperative that you please him both mentally and physically in the
bedroom.

"Sis! Tapos mo na ba yang libro?" tanong ni Grace mula sa kusina

  Sabado ngayon at wala akong pasok kaya nagpagpasyahan kong pumunta dito kina Grace... para narin mabasa ko tong sinasabi niyang libro nung pang nakaraang linggo.

"Oo, sis tapos ko na" sabi ko habang naglalakad patungo sa kung nasaan siya

"So, marami kang natutunan?" makahulugang sabi niya tsaka ngumiti

"Uhm...Konti" sagot ko na ikinakunot ng noo niya

"Hindi ko binasa lahat kasi ang labo ng ilan, sis" paliwanag ko

"Gaya ng?" tanong niya sabay taas ng kaliwang kilay niya

"Gaya nang huwag ko raw siyang sabihan ng mahal ko siya" sagot ko

"*chuckle* Ang ibig sabihin non sis... hindi mo dapat sabihin yun sa kanya kung wala pang kasiguraduhan na mahal ka nung lalake sis. Hayaan mong siya ang unang magsabi no'n sis" paliwanag niya

Hindi nalang ako umimik... Kumuha nalang ako ng baso at pumunta sa ref. para kumuha ng tubig sa pitcher.

Inuhaw kasi ako...

"Hayaan mo sis... gaya ng ipinangako ko sa'yo, tutulungan kita. Huwag kang mag-alala marami akong baon diyan, magtext ka lang kung kailangan mo" nakangiting sabi niya

"Thanks" nakangiting sabi ko bago ako uminom