You can see people as they are and only want them for their looks... when you're young you're immature and only think of what you're gonna get from the person but you don't pay attention to yourself... nor what you like about them... you're not genuinely interested in them, just your own gratification.
It is a selfish and immature mindset and that's the mindset I used to have.
But now I am self aware and look back on my thoughts.
I haven't erased the conversations with my ex because of that. I wanna keep learning about my past self.
