I think it's hard to convince yourself that someone isn't for you when you love them.There's a moment you got to separate your feelings from the person to see the person.
I got to do that in a few instances. The coffee thing and other things made me think a lot...
But it's weird how you still love them, despite the differences.
Maybe true love isn't based on how much you connect with someone or how many things you have in common. Because even when you're completely different from them you still love them. But you also have to be attracted to them somewhat... so love is both a feeling and a choice...
So I wonder, if I choose not to love him... would that work? And what would that include, or imply?