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How do I deal with the fact that I will never meet my role models?
I know it seems silly but sometimes I think about it so much it keeps me up at night.
I support so many celebrities and they will probably never notice me.
Please help, I need an opinion.
Thanks, Monica*
*Name has been changed to protect the identity of the writer.
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Dear Monica*,
Who told you that you will NEVER meet your role models? You don't know if that is true or not. People all over the world meet celebs daily. It may be at an event they are hosting or something as minor as a restaurant.
I'm not sure who you're role models are, you didn't include an example. But I spoke with a friend recently about something similar to this.
My friend Lacey* has a role model, it's Shawn Mendes. He basically saved her life through his music. She always said the same as you. "I'll never meet the man who stopped me from ending my life!"
I told Lacey* to NOT give up hope! Write fan letters, give him inspiration, send a simple card. Talk about how he is important to her. She did exactly what I suggested!
Would you like to know what happened? He sent her a letter back with two concert tickets that included backstage meet and greet passes, a personal letter wrote and signed by Shawn himself and a photo with him holding up her letter and card she wrote him. He signed the picture as well.
My point is, don't give up on your dreams of meeting anyone. If your role model has passed (for example many look up to Tupac, he is a legend!) You can visit their resting place.
You are the only one who can push yourself to follow your dreams sweetie. Don't give up, even if it seems impossible.
Impossible things are the things worth fighting the hardest for. Write a bucket list and include meeting your role models on there. Write them a letter and tell them how much you admire them and look up to them.
Oh, by the way, NOTHING is silly and don't ever be embarrassed to ask anything.
Keep on going forward toward your goals! Because one day when you shake the hand of one of your role models I will come to your mind and I will be doing my "told ya so" dance! 😉😏
You got this darling! You can do anything you set your mind to as long as you don't give up along the way.!!
Thanks for writing in to get an opinion, I hope this will enlighten you a little to never give up on your dreams.
💋Love Always, Boo💋
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