Dear Boo is an advice journal for anyone who needs someone to talk to. I listen and give my advice about any topic possible. So, things such as rape, eating disorders, psychological disorders, self-harm, suicide attempts, abuse, and much more, will...
My ex best friend, Jaxon*, has been posting things about how he is lonely and how things was better in 2017. Well, in 2017 we were best friends.
The reason he and I aren't friends anymore is because he started bullying me, being fake and talking behind my back to everyone I knew.
My other ex best friend, Julie*, is dating him. She and I don't talk anymore, so I don't know if they are still dating or not. We aren't friends for the same reason, she ended up abandoning me.
I'm really starting to get concerned for Jaxon* though. He doesn't usually post things like this. I'm not sure of how his mental health is.
I know I probably sound insane for still caring, but I can't help it. My heart feels the need to text them and check on him.
But I don't know if I should, I don't know if I can trust him again. Do I give him another chance? I gave him like..50.
Would it be going behind Julie's back because she didn't want us talking? I'm just rying to figure this out. I love your advice, I'm just stuck on what to do.
Thanks so much, Kandy*
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Dear Kandy*,
How you feel is not insane. You have a massive heart and you truly care about people from the inside out. Never feel bad for caring too much, just don't let yourself get hurt in the process.
Jaxon* seems like he misses you. He's posting things like this to possibly get your attention so you can reach out to him first because he is afraid and ashamed to reach out to you.
Have you ever wondered if Julie* was the reason that everything that fell apart between all 3 of you? She was (is?) dating Jaxson*, then all the sudden, both of them start to bully you, being fake and talking behind your back. Plus, she completely abandons you. She may have been jealous of the friendship between you and Jaxson*.
All you can do is take that chance. Text Jaxson*, reach out to him, see if he is ok. He may have made a mistake letting you go because you are an amazing friend. Maybe right now, he is lonely and feels that he don't have anyone. He may feel that nobody cares about him, it's always nice to know that someone cares about you.
If he turns out to be the same way, then you can always cut ties. Reaching out to someone is never wrong. He may need that helping hand...he may need you.
You are very good person, Kandy*. I admire your strength for friendship and your loving heart. Many people look up to you.
Check on Jaxson*, because remember that some friendships last through many tribulations.
Thank you as always baby girl, Boo 💋
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