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Hello, fabulous Boo! Hugs and kisses to you mami. I think you are so awesome with how you help everyone with advice in this book, and as well as in your personal messages.
My name is Zayne* and I am bisexual. Well, I have sex with both men and women but only date women.
I can't seem to connect with a guy and I don't know why. Here lately I've been having sex with the same person. Lately as in, the past two months straight (or not straight 😉)!
I broke up with my girlfriend when I started sleeping with Jayden* because I'm not a cheater. If I'm having sex with someone then I'm only sleeping with that person. I always use protection and get tested every six months.
Anyhow, Jayden* and I started going to movies and dinner, things like that. The more I'm with him, the more I like him. We always act like a couple when we are out and at home. We hold hands, cuddle, act silly and just be one.
I don't know if this is considered dating or not. We are with each other all the time. We go out to dinner at least three times a week, movies on the weekend or maybe skating or bowling.
For the first time, I'm wanting to ask him to be my boyfriend, but I'm so nervous. What happens if he says 'no', and wants to end everything this is between us? What if I'm not good enough? How should I ask him to be only mine?
Why am I so nervous? I look at him and I feel like I'm floating on air. He makes my toes curl (in more ways than one 😁), he makes me feel like I can do anything. I can see him being in my life forever, yes mami, forever.
Help me out babe, what do I do? Do I keep quiet and just enjoy sex or should I ask Jayden out and make him mine?
Lots of Love xoxoxo 💞Zayne* 💞
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Dear Zayne*,
Baby, you need to open those pretty eyes and feel with your heart. You are slowly but surely falling for Jayden*.
You say you've never dated a guy because you haven't connected with one. Now you have. It's no different than asking out a woman. They both have hearts and feelings.
The way you describe Jayden* it seems as if he cares a lot about you to. You go on dates already many times a week, you just don't put a label on it.
I always tell people... Always follow your heart. The heart always knows the answer.
I admire how you're faithful, not many people are anymore. That is definitely a quality that Jayden* will appreciate.
When you do ask him to be your boyfriend, just pour your heart out. I highly doubt him turning you down.
You are good enough! Don't doubt yourself, love. You got this! You're nervous because you have massive feelings for Jayden*.
Write back in and let us know how everything goes and how you asked him out! I'm excited for you both.
Good luck sugar! Can't wait until you make that gorgeous boy yours!
Sending hugs and kisses, 💞 Boo 💞
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*Names have been changed to protect the identity of the writer.
