Saturday, August 1, 2020
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OKAY SO I GOT A LOT OF NERVOUS ENERGY SO I'M JUST GONNA VENT QUICK THEN SPEND—HANG ON THE CAPS LOCK IS ON there we go much better. So I'm going to quick vent, then either write or cry or try to fall asleep before my brain overthinks anymore than it already is.
:)
So basically what's going on is that I have a in-person meeting with a group of friends I haven't see in-person since very early March.
It's brunch. At a local little shop with good food. We'll try our best to sit outside.
That's not what worries me (well besides the fact that I'm terrible at conversation and get really nervous and tend to say the wrong thing in the heat of the moment and will no doubt regret most of my words/laughter/actions for months after this because that's how I am, that's how I work-).
What does worry me is the dress code: little less than Easter Sunday formal.
So somewhere between Formal and casual formal, which is h a r d to gauge. I mean, what I consider formal may not be my friends' formal and most of my 'formal' wear is black dress pants/a black skirt and a nice top or maybe a dress or two barely ever wear.
PROBLEM IS: there's also the weather to consider, which is 73 to 75 degrees F plus humidity which is between 74% and 67%.
No. Black. Pants.
Truly tragic because I wear those pants all the time at all the formal events I can get away with it (read: most formal events).
And then it's 'well why don't you just wear that black skirt?'
IT'S BLACK!
I don't know if that'll clash with the dress code or not!
Formal to me is black bottoms with either a faded light blue, a grey, or a black top. Or this cute light grey and white dress, but it has long sleeves.
I'm left with either a dark blue and green dress I love but is made out of this soft flexible fabric or a deep navy with white stars almost skintight dress made out of the same feeling fabric.
And it just scares me because what do I do?!
Oh and here are the two dresses.
EDIT: removed photo
^^^^ blue and green
Orrrrrr
EDIT: removed photo
^^^^^ dark blue with white
The lightning was weird, sorry about that.
And sorry about the markups, lots of personal stuff I'm not ready to show yet.
And the mask isn't the one I'll be going with, it's just the only one I had on hand.
I don't know, I have till 8:30am my time to decide so um, which one do you think looks the best? I may throw a little thin thing on over top my shoulders just in case but otherwise that's what I would be wearing.
Please, which one do you guys think looks the best? Because I've been overthinking for days and I'm weak so please help?
Stay safe kiddos and make sure to get some sleep like I should be doing, but am instead worrying over clothing because I'm a nervous disaster of a human being.
Don't be me.
Love you <3<3<3
~Ink
Also I'll be taking down the pictures after noon my time because I'm self conscious about my figure :)
