♠️ The Discovery Of You ♠️
Written by- ZindagiKeRang
Have you ever given up on yourself? Not on others or your dreams, or even someone's dreams or aspirations, but yourself.
It happens from time to time when you are going through a very difficult time, a time where nothing seems to be going right. No matter what you do, no matter the effort you put in your self, in your work, in your relations it does not work.
Initially, you think it will sort itself out but then it doesn't. Then comes a phase of blaming it on others, something went wrong so let's blame others, a friend, the officer in charge, or even God. Next comes the phase where you start doubting yourself, your capabilities, if it keeps on going leads to you losing the will to work on your self.
Even when you do get out of that bad spell, that doubt carries itself, attaches itself to your very psyche, making you doubt every decision you make. It makes you doubt your worth. It doesn't matter if you are doing great now, that self-confidence is hard to build as it is hard to lose.
That is way Self -esteem and Self-confidence are regarded as High esteem needs and other confidence is considered to be a low esteem need in psychology, according to Maslow's Heircharcy of needs model.
That Self-esteem and Self-confidence is so very strong that losing them means a long road of recovery to that point again.
But it isn't impossible, it is difficult but never impossible.
All you have to do is, never give up. Even you feel like you have given up on your self, then don't give up on your work or your studies, or any other aspect of your life.
When you work and eventually you do get results it will be your hard work that reminds you that this is your work.
It will take time, but your accomplishments will pave the way for the road to recovery and stronger than ever self-confidence.
As that confidence comes back and you feel that your work, does mean something you will start trusting your decisions again, taking charge again, trusting your capabilities again.
Whenever you do doubt yourself just look at your work, look at how your grades might be increasing even if it is two or three numbers per test. Look at how your friends have changed over time, how you might have lost a great deal of them but in turn, gained a few friends that care for your well being.
With every little accomplishment remind yourself that this is your work, not in a narcissistic way but is proud of your hard work way. Remind yourself that if you do work, and you put all of your efforts into it, it will give you the result, by the time it will.
When it does get you results remind yourself that your decisions, your capabilities, made this possible.
Love and hugs
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April 19, 2021 (Monday)
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