Sharing my Yaya Chronicles. Sharing this screenshot.
Upon hearing Horror Stories from other parents. I realized hindi pala ako nagiisa. And I agree with co mommy here. I also realized where my Mom rage/stress is coming from before. Minsan sa kanila kasi I had to sulk up my feelings pag may nakikita akong red flag from the helpers. Kasi instead of calling them out, I tend to keep mum nalang.
Yaya A and Yaya B story.
At first, 7k lang talaga ang kaya kong ipasahod sa mga maids. But nakaabot din ako sa pang ilang helper (nagnakaw ung iba, kinuha ng jowa, nanakit). So I thought to increase ung salary ng Helpers up to 11k each kahit maliit lang naman talaga house namin baka sakaling tumino. Pero walang nagyari. Ending mas naging kampante sila and ultimo feelings ng anak ko binabalewala. (Pag nakakipagkwentuhan anak ko, laging nakasimangot,nagccelphone, nagbibingihan)
Sad to say. And nagguilty ako dito kasi nakiusap pa ako sa kanila na pagpasensyahan anak ko. Though sana nakita ko na major red flag na un ginagawa nila sa anak ko. (As what can be seen sa screenshot).
Now, umalis na sila without paalam to think na maayos ko naman pinakasimahan. (Sumama daw sa jowa 😅) Hindi rin pala effective ang increase at pakikisama.Now, Yaya free ako ngaun. I know may mga mababait padin na helper out there. In time, makakahanap din ako. But ill remain yaya free for now. Nagtutulungan kami ngayon ng family ko sa household chores and business.
Next Time, Ill also learn to stand up for my child.
Baka may massuggest kayong online play school para may friends at makakausap minsan na iba ang daughter ko. 😊
Salute to all parents who juggle their tasks and chores without Yayas. Kaya natin to 🤍😊
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