Recovery

Take My Advice, I Know What I'm Talking About

You meet someone.

It's all good and seems real and different. You have deep conversations with them and learn about their life and their past. You talk every hour of the day and you crave to see them, it gets to the point where you plan out a future with them.

Suddenly,

Things start to change. You start to talk less and less. They start to become distant. You start to chase them when they show you they don't care and you're stuck wondering where things went wrong and the reasoning for chasing them is because you want the person they first were when you guys started catching feelings.

Things like this is why nobody can fucking trust anyone and why things are so hard in this generation to actually love someone and be in a faithful relationship.

This is why people rather stay single and be alone and not stress and be hurt about someone because they know how it's going to turn out from past experiences. Some people are different though, some will take on being with someone who hurts them knowing damn well they're not good for them because for these type of people they rather feel this than have the feeling on loneliness.

But mostly for others they grow tired of always chasing someone who doesn't give a fuck about them and they become heartless and distant with everyone. When things end on bad terms because of someone going from "Baby I'll never leave you I love you so much" to them all of a sudden switching up entirely and acting like they never told you anything and dropping all the promises they made you. THAT PERSON - will act like the victim. They will start to play the role of it being YOUR fault just to get rid of the guilt of them hurting you because they're stubborn and blind to what you do/did for them and don't want to admit they took you for granted.

The actions from the person who fucked you over is really important. If they truly act like you never existed and start to want and get attention from others, you just have to let them go no matter how hard it is, they never deserved you.