Recovery

Lies Hurt

Lying doesn't get anyone anywhere. Lying just hurts people in the worst way possible. And once they catch you lying, it is pretty impossible to gain their trust back. No matter how hard they try, those lies keep repeating in their head. 

If you happen to lie to someone, try. And if they can't believe you, don't get mad, don't yell, just keep trying. You have to try your very hard, try everything in the book, and most importantly, NEVER give up. It is YOUR job to earn it back, do not ask them how because chances are, they do not know themselves. Their mind is a mess when it comes to you, you had hurt them so much that they did not know what to think anymore.

I have been through lots of lies, thousands and thousands throughout my life, and I have told some lies as well, but I try my hardest to tell people the truth. Today, I realized that if you spend time throughout your day and night, thinking about the lies you have been told, it helps you get over them quicker. Especially when you know they no longer care about you and your feelings. If you have been lied to from someone you love dearly or trust with your heart, think about all the lies you have been told. Think to yourself "Is this pain really worth it?" Do you want to spend the rest of your life fretting over them and their lies that you were not worth to be told? You are the world love, you don't deserve some jerk's lies over and over again. You are the best thing to ever walk this planet, do not let lies bring you down. It is okay to cry a little bit, but when you have ran out of tears, pick yourself up, get a glass of water, call your best friend and spend the day with them. You are better than crying and splitting your skin open my dear. Now, go start your great life.