Missing the point

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Idk how many times I'll have to see a TikTok where someone is talking about how it sucks when someone drops all their friends when they get in a relationship and the comments defend the couple. But it's kinda annoying. Because the video is talking about a specific instance of someone getting into a romantic relationship and dropping their friends to spend more time with their partner.

Then people in the comments pull up and say "well my friends made me feel left out but my husband didn't" that's a different scenario. People are so quick to jump on these videos and be like "well sometimes—"

Yes. Sometimes friends can be jealous/over possessive when their friend gets into a romantic relationship. But the video wasn't talking about that scenario. It's talking about how it sucks when a friend drops you just bc they're dating someone now and they stop spending time with their friends.

The video didn't say that was the only scenario. People just miss the point entirely because society pushes people to always focus on romance.

I don't know. It's just annoying I guess.

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