Hello I thinks it's been a hot minute since I've updated on here so hello everyone.
So I feel so alienated sometimes when the topic comes to romance and good couples. Like, maybe I'm just ignorant and dumb because I really don't know much about romantic relationships but I was watching this YouTube video of these two guys reacting to one of those odd one out jubilee videos and it was like 6 couples versus 2 siblings which kinda weird but okay.
One of the questions the groups asked was what's something your partner does that you don't like and this one dude said he didn't like being kissed first thing in the morning and my first thought was "valid I need space in the morning too plus, morning breath" but the dudes watching the video said it was weird/made him a bad partner for not showing his girlfriend affection in the morning and someone voted him and his partner/sibling (idk I didn't finish the video yet so idk who the odd one out is) but they said it was a red flag and I'm like okay like what is this, is it not just a simple boundary?
Like as someone who is NOT a morning person I totally get where he's coming from or maybe it's a moring breath thing like what
Also just because he doesn't like kissing first thing in the morning doesn't mean he doesn't like it after he's had a few minutes to wake up more and stuff and/or show affection in other ways like smiles and I love you's or something like god damn people make dating seem so hard and complicated but maybe if people just stoped demanding stuff from their romantic partner it wouldn't be so hard.
People create these high expectations for spouse/romantic partner and it's like just crazy to me.
Like if you're dating your world/life has to revolve around you're romantic partner and if it doesn't you're a bad partner but like people have other relationships like family and friends and such like yes there should be some expectations like they're there for you and such but allos seem to feel entitled like idk how to explain it but I just I can't wrap my head around this and I genuinely do not get why romance is so like big and popular because it just sounds awful because to be a good romantic partner it's almost as if you have to be a bad friend and if you put your friend first even once it's "you're a horrible spouse/romantic partner" like why does this make me so mad
I have too many things to say but no words to say them. I'm just confused
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