Secret Love Nest 2018

Open Relationship pt2

Apparently, according to my research online...

(Oh...online...)

Yeah...just bear with me for moments.

(Nah, go on. We just thought it's 2018 already and you might have cured that habit of yours of searching things online...something like that.)

Yeah, no. Online is still my number one source of information. Aside from books and Qing, of course.

Like I am saying, before you all interrupted me, there are many types of open relationships. One is what Jin had with his latest ex. Where they can sleep with other people as long as their partners know and approved.

Another examples are couples known as swingers, who find another couple who will be willing to have a foursome with them.

Another one, is a couple who finds just one person and had a threesome with that person.

It's complicated and headache inducing to be honest.

But I don't judge these people. Too much. I don't want to judge them, but you see I don't understand this open relationship thing so I can't help but think how people can have them and why?

Me? I am not confident that I can handle an open relationship. I think I am too selfish and too jealous and too OCD to have one.

I talked to Qing about it. After Qing settled Jin in the guestroom, he came into our room and found me looking online about open relationships.

Me: Why don't we have this?

Qing: (lying beside me) What this?

Me: Open relationship.

Qing: (scowling) Don't even think about it. I hate the fact that I have to share you with your laptop. If you inject another person in our relationship, I may forget about being Dr.Banner and turn full the Hulk on you.

Guess who had rewatched Thor: Ragnarok last night.

Me: (nodding in agreement to his opinion on this open relationship thing or whatever) Yeah. While I will Hella the hell out of you.

Qing: (shuddering) Oh scary.

Me: How is Jin?

Qing: Settled. Don't worry about him. The truth is, Jin and his latest ex was thinking about breaking their relationship when this happened.

Me: I see. But still, a lame duck relationship is no excuse for him to cheat and with a married woman of all people.

Qing: (sighing) I fucked up that night too. I didn't get a good look at the woman Jin was pulling. If I knew that that woman is married, I would've stopped that.

Yeah. I know Qing will at least make a move to shake some sense to his friend if he has an idea about the status of the girl Jin slept with.

Me: Did you explained to him about my OCD?

Qing: (nodding) But I just wasted my breath. Jin is aware of your complex. He promised not to touch the things precious to you. And he will be careful while using the bathroom.