Negative Stuff

My Mother's Parents Invited Themselves Over a Day Before Her Big Surgery

I hate my grandparents.... They are such terrible people and even worse parents. They're manipulative, selfish, and egotistical. Not to mention the fact that they think they're so special and just better than everyone else at everything. So of course I hate them and want nothing to do with them: they make my mom stressed out to the point of crying and my father frustrated beyond belief. They also treat everyone like idiots, which I do NOT like.

But this time, they make plans to come over to OUR house (with other people) right before my mother's surgery (which is actually supposed to be 3 surgeries in 1 day), because they "won't be able to celebrate Father's Day" after her surgery.

1. You are terrible parents; you don't deserve anyone even saying "Happy Father's/Mother's Day" to you, never mind actually celebrating it with you.

2. Who the f*ck schedules some big get-together literally a day before a huge surgery AT THE HOUSE OF THE PERSON WHO'S GETTING THE F*CKING SURGERY!!! SERIOUSLY!! WHY THE F*CK DO THEY ALWAYS SCHEDULE SH*T AT INCONVENIENT TIMES, LIKE SCHEDULING DINNER WITH HER WHEN WE HAVE A TRADITION OF CECIL'S! OR 'OH, YOU JUST FELL? WELL, F*CK YOU; WE'RE STILL GOING TO THIS FESTIVAL AND WALKING AROUND A TON! AND YOU KNOW WHAT? THAT'LL BE GOOD FOR YOU!' LIKE SERIOUSLY, HOW F*CKED UP DO YOU HAVE TO BE THAT YOU ARE SO INCONSIDERATE AND/OR STUPID??? My mom falls HARD!! So when she falls, she needs to rest! Not go straight to a f*cking festival where she has to walk a ton!

3. I never want those two at my place EVER because they're b*tches who point out everything wrong with your house despite that they stuff sh*t under their own couches and whatnot. Like, f*ck you; you're not welcome. Ever. If you won't complain about my place, then we can talk. Because my place is my place. If you have a place to sit, eat, do whatever the frig you want, and it's not filthy, uncomfortable, or anything, what's the frigging problem? You only have to be in there for a couple of hours, right? So who cares if I have huge stacks of things on my ottoman or side table? You shouldn't be messing around over there because it's not your sh*t, and it doesn't have anything that you might need.

So my mom's been stressed out this whole week because it was a) her last week in school (she's a teacher), b) her stupid, b*tchy parents are coming over tomorrow, and c) her surgery is the day after if I'm interpreting correctly.

And I'm sure tomorrow will be a mess as well. All they do is produce negativity. There is nothing positive that comes out of my relationship with them besides getting money for holidays or whatnot (which, in my opinion, is not anywhere worth dealing with the f*cking stress and sh*t they f*cking cause every frigging time).

Which is why, when I move out, I never want anything to do with them ever again :) If they're willing to actually listen to me, then we can talk. But as it is now, they treat me like an idiot that can't do anything. So no thank you. I never want to even see your faces ever again.

... I really don't understand how mom can't see how terrible they are.... I mean, come on, they drive her to tears and don't give a f*ck. (No, seriously, my mom could be crying, saying to her stupid-*ss mom to just leave her alone, and yet her mom will still babble on about the same thing that got mom upset in the first place.) They manipulate her into doing things that either a) she doesn't wanna do or b) are unhealthy/have negative results.

Oh, and, they don't give a f*ck about you want. For example, they'll say that since it's your birthday, you can go wherever you want..., but then if what you want for your birthday meal isn't what they want, then they will either a) pressure you into changing your mind or b) communicate to everyone else that you want to go to wherever they want to go (which, in the past, has actually been a place that the birthday person doesn't like or at least doesn't care for). ... Like wtf, if you don't wanna go where I wanna go, f*ck off; you don't have to go to my birthday meal. (In fact, I'd be very happy if they didn't come to my birthday meal.) I ain't going to a place I hate just because your dumb *sses are selfish little f*ckholes. ESPECIALLY on my birthday! I may tolerate a place I hate for other family members, but not for you and not on my birthday.

(sighs) I really am fed up with them.... I wish they'd just go away already... leave us alone....