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just felt like saying it for hopefully some reason (POLITICAL rant)

>>>>>>>i guess do NOT read this if u get offended easily and wont read till the end with a calm mind capable of processing the information. ive seen enough of ppl getting offended with these things to know that warning is absolutely vital.<<<<<<<

This isnt the beginning of a new series or anything. I just felt like saying it for hopefully some reason - even tho it's not like it'll make any difference bc it's not on twitter or shit, but it's good to be useless sometimes, not just productive and valuable member all the damn time, it's tiring - and i guess it'd be pointless to make a separate book for it but whatever. Also, essentially all of the following information abt płeć is facts from sayenz, not any personal opinions. It's just written in a stupidly cringe uselessly emotional way bc im a human life form and so im still dumb in many ways, or whatever the proper terminology would be, and like to indulge it sometimes. I also been consuming some yt comments over the recent ~2 years, so my brain has rotten a bit. Still recovering.

So i dont watch news and all that shit, anymore, bc what's the point. I simply vote, that's it; happier life that way, away from social dumb inflammation. But u do u. Recently though there's been that thing on the internet, and i guess it's in one of the eng speaking countries too, but ive seen ads in pl for this: we gon protec kyds from genda. And of course it uses rainbow/s [flags] bc the opposing part of the society threw everything into the same bag, so it's prbly not just abt gender/whatever but also abt sexual orientation. Idk, idc, dont tell me unless u have good news. Point is:

when i saw that i said to myself "told u so, society" and my face was like this: -_-. Bc contrary to everybody else (i'd hope that was a gross exaggeration, but hope is a stupid mother or however the pl saying goes), I cared to educate my dumb ass - so it's not dumb anymore and instead i can sit on it and trust it wont fail me - and came to the following conclusions (among others):

> first, the society confused płeć with płciowość. English is retarded here=doesn't rly have terms for that, so cheers. Off to a good start. I guess the closest to płciowość would be sex-typicality/atypicality. Maybe also masculinity/femininity but that's a mouthful so fuck it. Alternatively, my memory might be failing me; u never know. And so shit like "real man" (tho funnily, not any "real woman"; but that's a whole different topic) has been born; meanwhile being a man is simply having male płeć (46,XY; dick and all; male gender) - płeć disorders complicate that (e.g. 46xy with cais = look like normal females and so have female gender, but male levels of hormones and don't have uterus etc) - and not fitting social ideas abt what a man is/does/wants/yadda yadda. And so masculinity isn't toxic; ideas about manness are toxic; and calling masculinity toxic causes some to think they're being called toxic (ive seen that on quora, a few years ago) which is an example of many misunderstandings that a confusing terminology causes. Humans dumb=language dumb. And so we suffer dumb suffering that could have been prevented so easily.

> then, in the recent few decades, ppl have been trying to fix it, including throwing away the "real man" and whatnot trash. Bless them. But they actually ended up fucking up even more, in some aspects. That is: instead of doing what they should have done - disentangling płeć from płciowość - theyve based their "fix" on that confused model and came up with tons of genders, because what they do is: confuse płeć with płeć norms. (I'm using the word płeć bc it's quicker to write than gender/sex.)

And so we have "they/them" and all that (hopefully if sb is reading this, they wont get offended b4 they even been handed an explanation; otherwise u gotta work on ur impulsivity. And not just for ur own good but also for the greater good of the very thing ur getting offended on the behalf of. Challenging but necessary; life do be like that). What ppl do is describe their gender identity, not their gender, except nobody knows anymore wtf gender means bc nobody cares abt clear definitions bc fuck that, who needs clear, understandable terminology that prevents confusion and misunderstanding which prevent shit like unjustified bias or abuse. In polish, gender would be płeć psychiczna, in eng that could be referred to as mental sex or sth; from my understanding usually it's referred to as gender but then nowadays that word became a whore: it's stuffed with everything under the sun and nobody knows anymore wtf it's even doing.