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he uses the traffic lights method when it comes to kinky shit ('what colour are you, baby mhmm?' 'green') so he knows if he needs to slow down or stop completely.
communication is important. especially when it's trying out something new. 'alright gonna use the vibrator on low setting for now and work our way up' he places it through your folds and switches it on low setting. 'how does it feel, baby?' he asks. 'feels good'. he keeps it on low until you're used to it and ready. 'alright darlin' gonna change the levels a little higher. let me know if it feels uncomfortable and we can set it back to the low level'.
talks you through everything. 'like the blindfold or not?'. you shake your head no. 'okay.. no blindfold'. 'gonna take it slow.. use my fingers first' he explains. 'let me know if it's too much'.
always tries different methods to find out what is more comfortable for you.
praises you always. 'doin' so well, love'. mainly to boost your confidence in whatever new thing you're trying. 'perfect, baby.. jus' like that'.
loves it when you take the reins and ride him. he finds it hot. but only if you want to though.
after every session, he asks you wether you liked it or not. 'how was it, lovie? did you like it? want to try it again?'.
always adapts to your needs. wether it's taking a different approach, soft music in the background or finding the right pace.
shows you the different sex toys and how they work. 'let me know if you want to try any of them'.
makes sure you've fully consent to it before hand. but with words.
if your nervous he'll sit you on his lap and remind you that you don't have to go through with it unless you really want to.
if you do, he repeats the steps so your prepared.
if you don't know what to do, he'll guide you. but also give you time to prepare yourself before doing it. 'jus' sink on m'cock, lovie' he guides you down onto his shaft. 'like that.. perfect'. 'what do i do next?' you timidly ask him. 'jus' relax for me..'. once you're accommodated he asks if you want to thrust back and fourth, up and down, in circles or simply sit still for a while.
's'not what i want, lovie.. it's what do you want.. remember it's all about you'.
'you can return the favour once you're comfortable and ready.. for now baby steps'.
'what's your colour, baby? green?' he asks. 'uh.. i don't know'. he stops all movements entirely (because he knows that he only proceed if you know your colour).
're— red' you scream. he immediately pulls out and holds you in his arms. 'i'm sorry, angel.. it won't happen again.. i promise'. she knows he always does promise.
never has sex when one or both is drunk. wouldn't be pleasurable if one or both can't actually enjoy it.
after care is always needed. even if he's worn out and too exhausted, he'll always take his time to clean you with a wet towel. 'did you like it, baby? you were so good'. 'mhmm' you hum. 'words, baby'. 'yes i liked it.. i liked it a lot'. 'want to try it again sometime?'. 'yes please'. 'okay.. we'll try it again sometime.. you did so well.. so proud of you'.
'here, baby eat this' he opens a protein bar for you. 'got some water too. are you thirsty?'. 'i'm okay'.
