Univeristy Confessions 2

[DLSU FW]

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hi! just wanna share my story and possibly get some advice

i'm gay and i have boyfriend of 2 years (going 3 this year). we've known each other ever since grade school, and we've been schoolmates up until he graduated high school. he is 2 years older than me, so naturally, we weren't really that close.

it wasn't up until 2019 when we bumped into each other and started talking. in the same year, he asked me out and that's basically the start of our relationship. he's funny, respectful, charming. just a really great person in general.

last week, he accidentally left his phone in our apartment since he went out to buy some coffee across the street. me, being the "i respect your privacy" type of person, did not open nor check his phone. that is when his phone suddenly rang. there flashed across the screen, was the name of an unfamiliar girl. i did not answer it at first but then it rang again for the second time.

obviously i answered it, just in case it was an emergency or something. it turns out that this girl was actually his "wife of almost 4 years". i was so flabbergasted to the point i do not know what to say to her. so i played it cool and acted like i was his "work buddy".

look i don't care if he is gay, bi, or questioning, but there are so many questions going through my head. "how did he manage both relationships?" "he was married when we met each other back in 2019??" "what the hell is gonna happen??"

it's been a week but i still haven't told him about the incident. he's already beginning to grow more suspicious of my actions. i might be lying if i say i'm not in a great deal of pain but i've been kind of avoiding him cause i might say something that i might regret later on.

i really love the man but this situation is something you can't really easily run away from. should i talk to him and patch things up?? or should i break up with him??

for both our sakes.

-M