Univeristy Confessions 2

[The Elbi Files]

Sabihin nating lahat ng tao ay against sa cheating pero have you been on the side of the cheater? Probably not. I once had a friend na "nagcheat". I did not hate her but instead I understood why it was done. Her boyfriend was always taking her for granted. Di siya iniintindi and always MIA in times of need.  Maraming times na online si bf pero di nirereplyan si friend. Kapag nagparamdam na, wala man lang sorry or explanation, or minsan pagmumukhain pa niyang masyadong needy si friend ko at sinasabing di lang naman daw siya ang iniintindi niya. She felt alone in that relationship. Kaya she spent more time with us, her friends.One time, while hanging out and meeting another group, may isang guy na somehow, nakapagpangiti sa kanya. I know my friend well. Palagi niyang iniiwasan ang mga potential na lumandi sa kanya. But this guy was different. Di niya nafeel na he wanted to get in her pants. Wholesome lahat. They eventually became friends. Fast forward, narealize nalang ni friend na may gusto siya kay guy from all the talking and bonding they have. Meanwhile si boyfriend, ayun once a week lang makausap ni friend tapos lagi pa niyang inaaway friend ko kasi ang demanding daw.(Noong narealize ni friend na nafall na siya kay guy, she stopped talking to him kasi alam niyang di dapat. Also di pala alam ni friend kung may pag-asa na maging sila ni guy lol. Basta ang alam niya, siya mismo may gusto kay guy.)So eto, nagkagusto nga si friend ko kay guy habang sila pa ng boyfriend niya. And waited until magreply na ulit si guy para sabihin sa kanya na nafall na siya sa ibang tao at makikipagbreak na siya. And that was almost two weeks bago pa sila nakapagusap. Alam niyo na nangyari, shit. Galit si boyfriend. Cheater daw friend ko, impatient daw, san daw ba siya nagkulang.Opinions? Kanino ba talagang kasalanan?Friend, 2015, CAS