Dear BAM,
So... there's a guy. Let's call him Thane. My brother sets me up with Thane, and everything is great. He seems perfect. We start to date. Everythings still good. A few days later, I break up with him.
I have no clue why, but I completely panicked. I don't even know why I broke up with him! I still really like him, don't get me wrong. But it seems like every time I date a guy, and they bring up the future, and it's with them, I freak out.
Why does this keep happening? There's a very good chance I might be getting back together with "Thane", but I don't want a repeat, because I really like him! Please help me!
-Future Disasters
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Dear Future Disasters,
Okay well seems like you don't want anything serious right now and you want to take things slow.. which a lot of people are like.. all you have to do is tell him that.. That you don't want to talk about the future together because you don't know what will happen yet til then because anything could happen. He should understand that.. You have to stay calm in this kinda situations because commitment is a big thing and if you aren't ready to talk about something that big then try not talking about it at all. Just live in the moment you know? I know exactly how you feel. I freak out too but that's why it's good to talk it out with your significant other. Make sure you both are on the same page. You have time, don't try to make promises or get each others hopes up if you don't want them to crash and burn.
BAM
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