Dear BAM, Please please help me!! Okay, so I like this boy. He's one of my best friends ex, another of my best friends old crush and my old crush/ex's best friend. (Confusing lol ik) anyways, I've liked him for a while now but I haven't told anyone because it's both of of my best friends crush and ex's, so I didnt flirt or like do anything I did with my old crush. So yeah, I finally told them and they told me "okay fine get raped" and blah blah blah. He's a growing boy going through puberty like any other teen soo he's sorta like a pervert. He always touches girls boobs and butts and everything. But it's not like he's a player though. And he raped my best friend (the one he went out with). I wanna go out with him, like I do but if I have any respect for my friends and myself then I wouldnt. But I just REALLY wanna go out with him. What should I do?? Thank you! -jossie
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Dear Jossie,
well I can tell you one thing, liking someone is really hard especially when you know all these bad things about them already. I do have to say one thing, rape is a no-no to me. I don't care if it's your friend or some strangers, rape is a no-no and I don't want you to go out with someone who has raped their gf in the past. It just shows how much respect he has for girls in general. You don't want to be with someone who's always going to want to grab your assets because you are so much better than that. Not only should you respect yourself but also remember that the other guy needs to respect you too. With all that being said I think you should not get involved with this guy if you know what's best for you. I don't want to see you with someone that will abuse you in that way. Find someone that's going to want you more for your inner self than your other, you know what I mean? I know you want to really go out with this guy but like a Big sister to a younger one, I'm only looking out for you with the best intentions. I hope you make the right decision and I hope you have a wonderful week darling <3
Love,
BAM
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