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Dear bam please help me i love that guy who is 21 and i'm 18 ,i know him from 3 years but i never talked to him but on my birthday i saw a mutual friend of ours with him and he knows that i have a crush on that guy so he told him why didnt you tell yaya happy birthday and we joked a little. since that day he sees ne and we say hi and stay a while then we leave ,and one day we stood like 2 hours it was the longest time and he sang to me and told me about his ex and family and friends and lots of things about him and added him self from my facebook account on my phone and i took his number. italked to him on whatsapp the first time and the second he talked to me the third i talked and also the fourth time but the fifth time he talked and the sixth and seventh i talked and we didnt talk since that day. i love him his personality his voice his way everything and i want him to talk to me as much as i do. please bam help me to make the man of my dreams love me or even just like me what shall i do.love yaya

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Dear YAYA, 

        One thing you have to get out of your head is to the want to make someone love you or like you. It seems like he likes you already but to make him love you, it's impossible to force such a thing on a person. His heart just has to feel it. I want to tell you something that I've learned most recently in my life. If there is no stimulation towards two people then one won't fall in love so quickly or become so involved with that person. This stimulation could be physically, mentally, or emotionally and if you have all three then that's when people fall in love entirely. You just have to continue to be his friend and if there's more for him, then he will pull through and if he doesn't then there's nothing you really can do.. I really hope this helps you in some shape or form. 

BAM