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friend problem (2)

While my friend (we'll call her A) is dating this boy (we'll call him B) and they have only been dating for 3 days. What I'm trying to say is that me and her best friend (we'll call her M) don't like B because he's really mean. For example on Friday we had our school dance, and while we were dancing B pushed M. Was like why dont you like me. I was like WTF you just pushed her, why would she like you anymore now. While this was happening A was watching this happen too. M was also avoiding A the whole dance too. And usallu after dances we go to Toms driven, and A was suppose to come with us but she didn't. A ended up going with B, and she knew that we would be with her if B was there. Which he was, A also amended up ditching (her best friend since kindergarten) M. Another example was when they first got together. Right after they were together B winked to his ex who he still flirts with. But when we try to tell her she ignores us. I even asked a whole bunch of guys in the class, and they even hated him to. We were all rooting for this guy named Sam because we all knew that Sam like A. I feel like if we don't do anything she's going to get hurt. But I also feel like she should be getting any help from anyone. I NEED SOME HELP WITH THIS BIGGG PROBLEM! -zebra

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Dear zebra, 

Well one part of me wants to say that you should look out for you friend and do something about this.. Try to talk to her and explain what is going on and how you feel about the whole situation but then another part of me wants to tell you to let it all be because it's her decision and her choice on who she goes out with and who she wants to get hurt over. Honestly everyone gets hurt and either way this may hurt her. The best thing in my opinion is to sit her down and talk to her about it with any hostile you know? See where that conversation goes before doing anything else. 

BAM