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Friend problem (4)

Alex

I had a friend who is nice but she is too hypocritical and judges too much. The other day we were in gym and i went up to her group and she told me to leave. I cried because i felt embarrassed and wasn't worth anything and this isn't the first time this has happened.i told my mom and she said why do you keep letting these people embaress you the truth is i don't want to be an outcast she knows everyone talks to everyone goes to parties is pretty and popular i wanna be like her . I get jelous easy she had a boy friend and the hugged in front of me all time i want to yell at her but im afraid i will get shunned by everyone fir not yelling at her since she is such an angel(bullshit). Im not sure of anything anymore most of my anger came from her and everyone adoring her like she is some kind of goddess. And on top of all that if i do hqul off and scream at her which will happen since i have a bad temper i will be an out cast and i will be shunned which is my biggest fear

~ lost confused tired

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Dear lost confused tired,

Why would you want to be someone that is hypocritical and judges people too much? Why would you want to be someone who asks people to leave just to make them leave? Honestly you shouldn't want to be like her. She's her for a reason and your you. You don't have to be an outcast but I'm just saying being popular or having a boyfriend or being friends with those kinds of people isn't going to matter in the long run. There just going to be another memory if it doesn't last. So my advice to you is not to care. If you need to stand up for yourself then stand up for yourself. There is nothing wrong with not being liked after as long as you don't care what they have to say and you did what you thought you needed to do. And standing alone builds character as much as being someone everyone adores, just saying.

BAM