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Dear BAM

hey Again, its me so Um I like this guy that is older than for 2 or 3 years for 4 years. My interest in that guy started when i was at the fourth grade, until when i was in the 7th grade, a new nerdy but a player/charmer/flirter classmate of mine was...a flirter to me.lets call him classmate . I was seated next to him and by the time goes by, I felt something....I told myself that it was just a Tiny Crush on him, what could go wrong? Until I was wrong. I fell inlove with both of them. My Older crush was really great in sports and in my fave sport, Volleyball. Some teachers reported to me that he was also very smart(But I don't stalk him!). But my classmate crush is the TOP 1 of our class and i am even attracted to smart guys. This year..im already at the 8th grade and my older crush's birthday was at September 8, everyone knows that I like <older crush's name> but I really didn't care but When my adviser mentioned my older crush's name..everyone 'aiiiied' except my classmate crush. He just stared at me. After that day, he didn't talk to me so what I did was asked advice from my old crush and luckily, he answered back. He told me that he changed or he was just giving me the cold shoulder. I explained everything to him until we said our good nights and sweet dreams to each other. Hell my classmate crush didn't talk to me for a SOLID month. Its not talk...he was like...avoiding me. But a little incident happened...he started interacting with me again. We had a little activity in our school called "Sci-Math". We were playing the last game and the last game included 7 pairs. I was included to the game until my older crush seated beside me and I also noticed the my classmate crush also joined with his best friend as his partner. He noticed me sitting beside Him so he was making the Obvious,OBVIOUS. After the game or the next day...we started chatting..well not chatting, just a simple greeting like hello and he will just nod. After a week, we had another Activity in school called "Math Blast". And again, the last game was to pick 15 players and i was chosen and so was My Classmate crush but then he got this attitude like this:my friend from the other section counted us. Im the last whil he was the 12th. He was all like"Oh My God. Ten again!...ten is her favorite number because...you know..its *cough* <older crush first name>"he teased my older crush's Grade level which is grade 10. Yeah..judge me all you want. Anyway...he started to get harsh with me then sometimes ignore again....i don't know what is up with him and I asked my Older crush again for his opinion and he asked me if I did something wrong in the past but since i am a shy girl, i didn't do anything...i told him but still at present(classmate crush), He is STILL harsh to me...What could I do Bam? Help ~confused&Inloveatthesametime:0

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Dear confused&inloveatthesametime, 

Well seems to me that he likes you but doesn't want to because you have a crush on someone else and that leads him to be more hostile towards you. It might be easier for him to do that then admit his feelings towards you. Id try talking to him one on one and see what his deal is tbh.. tell him that him being hostile isn't necessary since you don't even like your old crush anymore. I hope this helps you in some way /.\

love bam