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Boy problem (6)

Dear alex,

My friend has been havinh some guy problems...again. So this might be confusing but this is how she explained it to me. I need some advice for her becuz ive honestly run out of advice myself. She says that there is this guy she used to talk to a few times last semester but now that its a new semester, our classes have changed and she rarely sees him anymore. She said that she doesnt kno if she shuld like him or hate him (she ont tell me y she wuld ever hate him) but apparently one of our friends heard him talking about her wen she slipped into the bathroom but didnt catch wat he was saying. Again, i always catch him staring at her or mybe he stares at her cuz she stared at him first idk. But i guess he keeps ocassionally talking to her even tho shes been trying to avoid him. His friends stare at her too. So basically she doesnt kno if hes spreading rumors about her or he likes her. This is wat she said to me 'why does he keep talking to me?' Also (this was kinda rude) he saw her and called out her name and she looked at him then looked away after he waved and she didnt catch this but he said 'nice butt' cuz she was wearing super short shorts that were hiked up cuz she was sitting down. And i told her wat hr said and she got annoyed cuz she thinks he was making fun of her. Gosh this is a really stressful situation for me i need help to give her advice. Do u think he likes her or is she just being paranoid? Cuz i feel like shes being paranoid but idk i dont kno how she feels. Thanks

Confusedfriend

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Dear confusedfriend,

Well I can say if he's checking her out then he's probably interested. I don't think this guy is spreading rumors. I think he may possibly like her. I mean if he has all his other friends looking at her too then it's possible he was talking about her but not in a bad way. I don't think that she has to be paranoid unless you over hear him say something that seems to be rude or hateful towards her.

BAM